Originally Posted by mkarim
By fun I mean taking them out almost every night and on weekends etc. Some want to be entertained almost every day.
you are confusing, having fun, with a guy being fun. They are two different things. I run a company, and when I 'm not running a company, I play the ponies. you could argue it's the other way around lol,. you'd actually be right. I went 3 years, not going on a single date, so over time, I have learned, to have my me time and enjoy it. I have hobbies, that get time no matter what, what little time I do have, i am a damn good piano player and I enjoy playing the piano, i get a few hours a week in here and there. I go to the gym almost daily, what I am getting at is, I'm a busy dude, it's why I don't post here a hell of alot. I say that to say, I don't have time, to wine and dine a woman in the sense of taking them out.. you know what.. i need to address something else you mentioned first you are wrong, beucase that's EXACTLY what a woman doesn't want. Think about it for a second. if you have time, to take a woman out every night, what the hell does that say about your personal life lol? Women want, waht every othe rwomasn wants, bitch club bitch syndrome. If you are on the phone with a girl all the time or always out with them, even if you are dating them, you are saying, in a round about way you are my life right now. There is nothing sexy about that. It's why the guy who sits on the phone with the girl all night, never gets the girl. A woman of any substance, will not respect a guy who takes them out every night and shit like that. Even when you have the time to do so, which you should not, that's the quickest way to the LJBF (let's just be friends) talk. Anyway as I was saying, guys who have no personality, no game, have to do things to be fun. I have the ability to entrain a woman while sitting at home. The redhead that dumped me for the , ihop dude, the night I met her, I was checking out a Richard Hawkins book at Barnes and noble, did not plan on staying for more than 10 minutes, I saw her, she saw me, she asked me if I had read the book, next thing you know it's 2am and we are walking the streets down town talking, didn't spend a fucking cent, actually I take that back I went to sonic and got us 2 slushes (green apple :winning
,just talking, she was so into me she asked me could she be my GF the next day, not 24 hours after I met her. I had her rolling the entire night. And that only comes from talking to women and developing game. A woman, that, MAKES you take her out, does not want to with you. She is using you as an excuse to get out. big difference. right after the redhead I dated this RN, we literary, no exaggeration, would have dates at mc donalds. It was was close to the hosptial and she liked their fries lol. She could care less as long as it was with me, she just wanted to see me. That is a big red flag, a woman that always wants to go out, and stuff like that, which is why I don't chase them when they leave. Just like a man has to have a life that does not revolve around a woman, damnit you don't want a woman who is like the plant on the little shop of horrors "FEED ME SEYMORE!!" just all the damn time. I want my woman to have a life, that i can just plug into, not waiting around for me to call or take her out and stuff, that's not healthy. You have to understand something about women, that is confusing and that is, they will make you do, or tell you to do things, they really do not want, because they don't understand that they don't want if if that makes sense. Women really do not want to be wined and dined. They wanted to be treated fairly, and taken out every once in a while, but in moderation. Plus they appreciate it more. After like 5 straight mc d's dates i took heather to sonny williams, which is like THE stakehouse in little rock, she had sa smile on her face you couldn't wipe off for days, she appreciated it. But, what if you get in the habit of taking women places like that all the time? "well i kinda wanted seafood". And hell truth be told I personally eat out at least 3 times a week, hell i'm eating left overs from earlier tonight @ Canta Larado as we speak. I like to eat nice food. I just do so alone, I have no qualms about taking women out or even paying for it, but it has to be earned. You just don't give out stuff like that, no more than women just give out poon tickets.