I have a friend who has the habit of beginning about every third sentence with, "Well, you know, what I guess I'm really tyring to say is..."
One time I was sitting with him and his wife when he did this, and then his wife, when he finished, said, "Well, you know, what I think he is really trying to say is..."
I just about lost it. I had to bite my cheeks to keep from laughing.
I thought I'd get used to it, but it's so bad I can hardly stand to have a conversation with him. Like, just say it! Don't try to say it! Don't tell me you're trying to say it! Just say it!