Desperate Girls

if she's unashamed of her desperation it can be kind of a turn on, once or twice.

exist primarily in your imagination.

don't mind at all.....

The way you all should approach this is you're just in it for the lay. The hit-it-and-quit-it rule definitely applies here, regardless of how lame it sounds.

Desperate people, even if you're already in a relationship with them, are just asking to be run away from. Desperate gf = unattractive and makes you think you can do much better so you want to *clap clap* get away desperate girl = unattractive and make you wonder wtf is wrong with her a while back I was on a ferry when someone dropped a note in my lap with a phone # to text her. I did out of morbid curiousity and met her in the back of the ferry and talked with her. She was okay looking but asked for my email and msn and asked to meet for coffee like the very next night and I never talked to her again.

While I don't advocate using a woman's body merely for one's own pleasure, I have found that a desperate chubby makes for an energetic and quite willing slump-buster. ymmv

we aren't talking about marriage. if she is boanable, then what is da problemo?

I had the exact same thing happen to me as Dakota rube's story in the OP a while back... but I didn't really view it as a negative thing for her to do because 1. she was hot, 2. she was an MD; and hell we're still together. I think she was just inexperienced/over-zealous or maybe just a romantic, which is fine by me It all depends on the girl and the specific situation of the parties I guess... if it was a random chick in a bar and it seemed like she did that type of thing a lot, I would obviously be worried about the aids.

I don't mind while there's easy pickins', but it becomes pathetic and/or scary eventually.