Originally Posted by MasterOfReality
lol lol lol
When she told you that you will have to chase her for 3 months, that should have set the alarm bells ringing. Attention seeking, cock teaser comes to my mind.
I would have dropped it instantly and have the satisfaction that she would have been annoyed that you didn't instantly bend over backwards - use a bit of reverse psychology. Girl fucking hate it when you ignore them.
Agree, although I'm kind of old for the texting advice, anyone should see using smileys, texting her so soon and frequently, and diction ("sweetheart") killed it for the OP.
OP: Learn how to talk to a woman over the phone (keep it simple, short, without any awkwardness). And, you should never have asked or even suggested the topic of you chasing her.
More importantly, you need to take women off the pedestal. So what if she was pretty/the prettiest you met this month?
Go to a city like LA or New York so you get desensitized to falling for any good looking woman. Here in Austin, they're a dime a dozen.
Also, you need to be the kind of person who legitimately has other things to do so or people to meet. This way, you wouldn't be lying if you'd tell her you couldn't meet a certain day or only had so many minutes in the day to spend with her before you had to leave.
Better yourself as a man, build your career, work out, learn something new like a foreign language, etc. The older you get, the more you'll realize women mostly
care about how much you make. It's programmed in them because of evolutionary psychology.