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post #31 of 308
check out the usefull threak on proper dickture etiquette , this will land you the girl without fail. fo' sho'
post #32 of 308
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Originally Posted by Nil View Post
Word. Super creepy. No chance with this chick, back off now unless you want a restraining order in the near future.
LOL. Agreed. This thread is awesome. The original texts even creeped me out.
post #33 of 308
You should have used "lol" or "haha" more in your texts. IME, they are a lot more effective than smileys..
post #34 of 308
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Originally Posted by polo votarient View Post
I mean what if I wait unitl this coming Monday and text her one last time, something along the lines of, "Hey, I know I came off as a complete moron and loser via text but thats not really what Im like. If by some chance you can overlook my "nervousness" (thats my attempt of making her smile or laught or find something cute in my situation) I would like to get to know you and even chase you if I may lol. If not then I guess you got to at least laught at my moronic self." I was thinking of adding the last part to be funny in some way.


Oh hells no.

Try text her saying: "Hey I need some advice for my friend's birthday, I'm bad with gifts for my girl friends"

Younger women need bait when it comes to texting so you need to get a hook in the text, get her thinking that she wants to contact you. Kinda dumb but hey, we're hunters.

Think like an email spammer.
post #35 of 308
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Originally Posted by Neo_Version 7 View Post
You should have used "lol" or "haha" more in your texts. IME, they are a lot more effective than smileys..

This is a perfect example of how fucked up male/female relations have become, especially with texting and facebook. Can you imagine how many messages a hot female with 2000+ friends must receive in her inbox? Not to mention the numerous wall posts from her friends reminding her how wonderful and gorgeous she is. Live. Laugh. Love. <3

And, on top of that, you have to deal with women that actually believe that a man that shows too much interest is bad for her. So these girls basically go through a number of meaningless relationships with guys that are only mildly interested in them and find themselves 30, single and wondering where the good men are.

OP, I feel your pain. Here's what I'd do, though. If she's in your same social circle, figure out where she'll be one night, preferably a dressy event. Invite a few of your friends, including two very hot women, to go there. Say hi (genuinely and with a big simile) if you see her and ignore her and have fun. If she comes by, you're golden. If not, she never cared for you and never will. You won't change her mind.
post #36 of 308
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post
LMAO dude reading those messages made me feel uncomfortable. So desperate, and the smiles make it obvious you're trying to be non-chalant.



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Originally Posted by ken View Post
For future reference, when a girl tells you you'll need to chase her for 3 months, you respond, "Do you have a sister?"



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Originally Posted by Nil View Post
Word. Super creepy. No chance with this chick, back off now unless you want a restraining order in the near future.



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Originally Posted by HelloIDistance View Post
LOL. Agreed.

This thread is awesome. The original texts even creeped me out.

post #37 of 308
Haha you dont know how to talk to women. You shouldnt be sending 2 texts for everyone you recieve.
post #38 of 308
well now that you're in this present state, you might as well send her dicktures, or follow her around.. or both....
post #39 of 308
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Originally Posted by willpower View Post
You have much to learn. But there's hope...Not with this girl, but with the next one. Watch "The Tao of Steve". Forward to :45 for the lesson. You basically did this. You texted desperation and anxiousness to her. Once a girl smells desperation, it is done. Don't even tryto get this girl back, you'll only be wasting your time. Seriously, don't text her again. Learn from this and move on. You lost this fish, cast your reel and catch another one. Don't contact this girl. Forget about her.You willfind another one. Your first text should have been something like: (do not try this now, it's over with that girl. This is just an example) What were you saying - you were going to chase me for 3 months? I'm not THAT easy! BTW, I prefer candy over flowers... The above displays that you're playful and confident. You turned the whole thing around - she's chasing you. This will be unbelievably attractive to most women, especially beautiful women who aren't used to someone turning the tables on them. Hot chicks are used to guys kissing their butts and tripping over themselves to please her. Don't be that guy. I know, I know - it sounds like you're an arrogant bastard. Girls love arrogant bastards - they really do. Why do you think girls are so crazy about bad boys? Confidence - You have to be the prize, not the other way around(she'll text you back with many LOLs. This is a good sign. After 3 hours or more, you reply with this: ) I've got some things to do this weekend, but maybe we can meet next week for a drink. I know this really cool place. Wed, Thurs are good for me.This shows you're a busy guy with plans. You also have a place planned out to take her to (find a place beforehand). Girls love a guy with a plan. You're also making her fit into your schedule, not the other way around.(A few dayslater - a few days before you go for drinks/coffee with her - you text her with) Hey, I met your twin yesterday. That wasn't you, was it? This demonstrates that other girls of her caliber are willing to talk to you. This will create intense jealousy on her part - women are always in competition with each other, even if that 'other' was someone you made up. She barely knows you, yet all of a sudden she's magically attracted to you, if only because she's competing with 'the twin'!This was good and funny... [quote=willpower;4076472]
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Originally Posted by polo votarient View Post
It really doesn't matter what you say. You can say "Hi, I know it's not easy meeting strangers, but so what, let's try". Or "You look bored. Game of tic tac toe?". "Hi, I came over to flirt with you, so let's get started. Ready? You go first" Even "Remember me?" will work. It's confidence or lack of confidence that the girl will pick up on, not the words you blurt out. You do have to greet her with a smile and make immediate eye contact when you're in front of her. Keep eye contact going 75% of the time when you're talking to her. Keep the conversation light. The more you can make her laugh, the better. Come up with a nickname for her, this will create a sense of familiarity between you two, even though you only met 20 minutes ago. It has to be about something you noticed about her - "You're studying volcanoes? Okay, Volcano Girl, what do you know about Pompeii?" Talk to her for several more minutes after getting her phone #, don't just split after she gives you her number. And when you text her (not the same day), use the nickname you came up with in the message. "So, Volcano Girl...blah blah blah blah blah"
Great advice. Your SF's dating guru!!
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post #40 of 308
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Originally Posted by polo votarient View Post
So I met this chick, she was by far the prettiest girl I have met this month and in person things were swell. I mean I started fliting with her and she flirted back and she ended up telling me I was going to have to chase her for like 3 months because she wanted to see if I was really interested, I said okay and I pretty much left. So I sent her a message the first day and this is practically how it went. (I met her this past Friday)

(FRIDAY)
Boy:So how long will I have to chase you before I can take you to dinner?
Girl: we will see
Boy: well I hope that I dont have to wait three months before I take you out to dinner...but if I have to I will
Girl: awwwww
Boy:
Boy: (6 hours later) what are you up to tonight?
Girl: no response

Saturday
Boy: have a nice day at work
Girl: thank you
Boy: how was your day sweetheart?
Girl:no response

Sunday: I did not text her nor did she text me

Monday:
Boy: Hope you have a great day
Girl: no response
Boy ten hours later) so is this whole ignoring my messages part of the me chasing you part, not that I mind being ignored and all, I just dont want to bother you
Boy: and I did not say that to be rude in any way, I just dont want to bother you
Girl:no reply

So clearly, I came on too strong and I guess I turned her off. Thing is I really want to get to know this chick because she seems like a good girl, so I faced stalked her and found out she had 2500 friends, I was like WTF, but she does work for some trainer who is supposed to be good but whatever. So I obviously did not add her because she is clearly ignoring me I suppose, she seemed into me when I met her friday though and I think I just screwed myself with the texting thing (FUCKING KIDS AND THEIR TEXTING, I NEVER LIKED THIS SHIT TO BEGING WITH) so I want to recover and need advice. Shes the first chick Ive talked to in about 6 months thats my age, the otehr girls were about 6 years my senior. Im 20, so I think we would get along, I at least want a chance with this girl. So if you guys could give me some advice as to how to approach her again, via text I believe is best, I was thinking of trying to establish communication again in a week, probably this coming Monday. What do yall think. Thanks guys.

im sorry but girls like this are teases and in college they are a dime a dozen trust me i had same experience as you. weird, attention whores, just really unstable mentally. usually are loners and dont really have other girlfriends other than some weird guys.
post #41 of 308
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Originally Posted by in stitches View Post
check out the usefull threak on proper dickture etiquette , this will land you the girl without fail. fo' sho'

Indeed.

I feel bad for the OP. I've been there; not quite as bad, but almost. You blew it, move on.
post #42 of 308
I love that we have to tell people how to pretend to have a personality.
post #43 of 308
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Originally Posted by Big Pun View Post
I love that we have to tell people how to pretend to have a personality.

Big Pun, you're really funny! If you aren't too busy, do you think maybe it's possible that you find time to have dinner with me on Saturday night? I mean, if you don't have anything else to do- if you don't want to have dinner, then how about lunch? No? How about coffee then? Please text me back asap whatever you choose! You're really handsome and funny and I don't normally get a chance to date guys of your caliber- I mean, we've just met and it's kind of soon but I think you're the best guy I've ever met, or am ever going to meet. When I talked to my mom about you last night, I told her I hoped we could get married. LOL! Sorry, hope that doesn't sound desperate or crazy, I'm just kidding hehe . What color wedding dress would you like? Anyway, we can talk about all of this at dinner/lunch/coffee whenever you spare time to meet with me, sweetheart. Thanks! xoxo (sorry about the kisses I hope that isn't coming on too strong, if you aren't comfortable with that then I won't use them again in my next message I send in 5 minutes)
post #44 of 308
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Originally Posted by Big Pun View Post
I love that we have to tell people how to pretend to have a personality.

or how to drink whiskey

or how to hold their drink "stylishly"

or whether to wear a charcoal or navy suit

or how to lace their shoes

or if they should leave a button unbuttoned

or how firmly they should shake hands at an interview.....

Helicopter parenting should be a capital offense.
post #45 of 308
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