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post #271 of 308
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post
txt -> your mom:
so when can i hit dat?

hit it like a pitch in the 9th inning ah nah he di int!
post #272 of 308
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Originally Posted by CalTex View Post
I'm 20

Makes sense then. I think it might be a generational thing. But I'm confused, are you the OP?
post #273 of 308
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Originally Posted by rohde88 View Post
Do you have houseparties nearby? Drunk underage girls are probably the easiest to boost OP's confidence.

Lol okay I don't think I am that hopeless lol.

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Originally Posted by IB240996 View Post
Makes sense then. I think it might be a generational thing. But I'm confused, are you the OP?

Yes I am, in a previous post I stated that I had changed my username.
post #274 of 308
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post
txt -> your mom:
so when can i hit dat?

The actual meme is "So when are you gonna let me hit that?", although the phrasing there is rather beta, I suppose.
post #275 of 308
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Originally Posted by tagutcow View Post
The actual meme is "So when are you gonna let me hit that?", although the phrasing there is rather beta, I suppose.

T-

The advice you haven't been given directly yet is - stop worrying about girls, go find something you like to do and become awesome at it. You're going to spend long enough married and thinking of things to do to get away from your wife; it's easier to justify this if there's already something you enjoy.
post #276 of 308
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Originally Posted by Stazy View Post
Honestly. The impression I'm getting from this thread is that guys seem to think there is only ONE way to talk to girls. It's not really the case. If you're naturally confident you don't need to try and act confident. You just naturally exude it. I think that's the problem with all the PUA bullshit...It's just an act. You might initially trick some girl into thinking you're worth chasing but sooner or later she's going to realize that you're full of shit. I'm definitely not saying I'm a master of picking up chicks. I'm not. Personally though, I've had more success with just being myself than trying to put on an act. That means: self depreciating humor, lame jokes, asking girls out via text (even a first date...omg), texting more than I should, and so forth. As long as you present yourself in an attractive manner, you shouldn't have to follow a "rule book".
That's my take. I have tried all the games and what not and usually find that acting like myself is the best way to go. This is especially true if you are looking for something more then a casual fling. At some point they are going to learn who you really are so it might as well be early on. EDIT: Not that you shouldn't use common sense and try to not come across desperate. Girls like a little chase and they don't generally want to see a guy seem too needy at first. The OP really started off on a bad foot with the girl.
post #277 of 308
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Originally Posted by Joenobody0 View Post
I've never been a "treat a girl like shit" kind of guy. However, I am the sort of guy that's generally indifferent to everyone (men and women). I tend to do my own thing. When I was younger I was focused on college, as I got older I was focused on my career. I didn't really have the time or inclination to chase after any women. However, I was successful. Not rich, but always well respected in any situation. To put it in style forum speak, I was alpha as fuck .

I think women responded to that because they saw a driven successful person who tended to not give most people the time of day. Consequently, when I made time for a women or showed them deference, they responded very well. I'm sure that many people have assumed that I was an asshole due to my reserved and very private nature, but I have definitely been pursued by a number of desirable women. Before anyone asks, I am no Brad Pitt or anything. I stay in shape, am generally good looking, but I'm not very tall (5'8" or so).

So if you're actually looking for advice, I'd say you should focus on yourself. Get to the point that you're happy being alone. Cultivate a sort of aloof disposition, and concentrate on your own life. You might not bang 200 sluts in your life, but interesting good looking women will pursue you. At the same time, you'll be setting the foundation for a very nice life. I hope it works out.

Also, the best way to find slutty chicks to have sex with is to go to the bar and get drunk; especially the sort of bar that caters to the 27+ career women demographic.

I have been catching up on this thread on and off today. THIS is great advice. Too many people (male and female) value themselves on being in a relationship. You have to be ok with yourself and being alone. If you are not, people will pick up on that and it will be all the harder for you to eventually get into something.
post #278 of 308
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Originally Posted by JMRouse View Post
Too many people (male and female) value themselves on being in a relationship. You have to be ok with yourself and being alone. If you are not, people will pick up on that and it will be all the harder for you to eventually get into something.

+10000000000
post #279 of 308
Can't be bothered reading this thread but you failed when you decided to play her games.
post #280 of 308
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Originally Posted by ClambakeSkate View Post
What's a good plan of attack for snagging the coffee shop server/cashier? Has anyone pulled this move successfully?
Yes, it's not impossible. You have to have been there 2 or 3 times so that she recognizes you and remembers any small talk you had in the past. They will remember you well if you made them smile at least. At that point it's simply a matter of asking. Preferably when it's not super busy that way there's no line to hold up you can chat for an extra 30s or so. The times I've done it I always got a #. Surprisingly ime ones that have BFs still give a # out and will at least chat some with texts.
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Originally Posted by Joenobody0 View Post
If it doesn't work, prepare for a really awkward coffee purchasing experience in the future!
Only if you're an awkward person. Show that it didn't really bug you (why would it anyways if you barely knew them) and they'll not be bothered either.
post #281 of 308
Okay so I forgot about that girl and if she were to contact me I have that f off mentality right now towardes her. O and I am the OP by the way, I have stated this before bur am still getting asked I I am.

So last night a buddy of mine and I went to the local p.f. Changs and our waitress cought my attention. I asked her a few questions and she answers and seemed cheery but she did not ask me anything in return, I also went there at 9:45 so they were quite busy. Point here is she is going to nursing school, broke up with her boyfriend and works their. She was a good waitress and I was going to try to ask for her number but this other waitress ended up picking up our signed receipt so I was unable to. (do you guys think that was intentional? As in she told her friend to get it because she coils tell I was trying to talk to her?)

So should I go back and try to her her phone number?
And if so how would you guys go about it? (I was thinking about asking her out for coffee)
Would she find out if I called the restaurant and asked if she was working the nigh I was planning on going?
Would it be weird if I went there again whenwas working and ask for her as our waitress?
I obviously don't want to turn this into a let's go eat there for 3 weeks thing just so I can try to get her number. Lol

In advance Thanks guys for all the advice.
post #282 of 308
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Originally Posted by tagutcow View Post
The actual meme is "So when are you gonna let me hit that?", although the phrasing there is rather beta, I suppose.

the complete version has boo at the end to maximize the effect
post #283 of 308
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Originally Posted by CalTex View Post
Would she find out if I called the restaurant and asked if she was working the nigh I was planning on going?

Good gravy man - DO NOT do that!!!
post #284 of 308
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Originally Posted by Doctor View Post
Good gravy man - DO NOT do that!!!

LOL bad idea eh? Well I am just trying to avoid having to eat there 6 times to bump into this girl again, I mean i figure asking for her to be our waitress once we are there wont be too bad would it?
post #285 of 308
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Originally Posted by CalTex View Post
So should I go back and try to her her phone number?
And if so how would you guys go about it? (I was thinking about asking her out for coffee)
Would she find out if I called the restaurant and asked if she was working the nigh I was planning on going?
Would it be weird if I went there again whenwas working and ask for her as our waitress?
I obviously don't want to turn this into a let's go eat there for 3 weeks thing just so I can try to get her number. Lol

In advance Thanks guys for all the advice.

Tell you what. The next time you see her, reach into her purse and take your balls out :-)

Sorry, couldn't resist.
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