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post #256 of 308
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Originally Posted by mkarim View Post
Yes in America you're supposed to chase them and spend quite a bit of money on them. Its the whole courting process. It gets too stressful, time-consuming and expensive and have to play a lot of head games.

That's why I love meeting women in Russia, Ukraine and Eastern Europe in general. Its a lot simpler, straight-forward, much more enjoyable and have to play far less head games.

Now I know why I've always wanted to move to Croatia.
post #257 of 308
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Originally Posted by mm84321 View Post
Now I know why I've always wanted to move to Croatia.

Yes Croatia is next on my list, followed by Belarus, Montenegro, Latvia, Estonia and Ukraine again. The women are so feminine, intelligent, educated and cultured. Most take very good care of themselves (they compete for men) and are in very good shape. Most of all, they are proud of their femininity and don't try to be men. Its a whole different experience.
post #258 of 308


Caltex Vietnam

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Originally Posted by mkarim View Post
Yes in America you're supposed to chase them and spend quite a bit of money on them. Its the whole courting process. It gets too stressful, time-consuming and expensive and have to play a lot of head games.

That's why I love meeting women in Russia, Ukraine and Eastern Europe in general. Its a lot simpler, straight-forward, much more enjoyable and have to play far less head games.

Funny this should come up...seems like every time I notice that a young woman appears to be Russian (or thereabouts), and I check her out, she sprawls/adjusts in her chair so as, as much as possible, point her rear at me. Russian women waste no time letting me know they're available.
post #259 of 308
This thread is awsome, some really good replies here. We've all been here i think, found some hot girl and made a complete arse of ourselves trying to seal the deal.

My sympathy to the OP but there's plenty more out there, literally billions

Chris.
post #260 of 308
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Originally Posted by Mr. White View Post
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Funny this should come up...seems like every time I notice that a young woman appears to be Russian (or thereabouts), and I check her out, she sprawls/adjusts in her chair so as, as much as possible, point her rear at me. Russian women waste no time letting me know they're available.

Yes they cut to the chase. No games, no all-men-are-pigs, no what-men-are-supposed-to-do, no what-women-are-supposed-to-do, no arguing and debating everything under the sun, no squirming over how many days you should wait before you call her, no need to wonder how many times you should let her call before you answer the phone, no need to play hard to get, etc. They're a throwback to much simpler days.

My friends in Eastern Europe laugh when I tell them about the dating scene here.
post #261 of 308
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Originally Posted by mm84321 View Post
Now I know why I've always wanted to move to Croatia.

croatan girls are beautiful and its a beautiful country, but if you want true eastern europe and the much more open women go to bosnia,poland,hungary etc. they make croatia seem tough.

and to tagut your post makes me sad. come to toronto and ill show you a great time and im sure 187 will have sex with you if you need a guarantee of sex!
post #262 of 308
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Originally Posted by West24 View Post
croatan girls are beautiful and its a beautiful country, but if you want true eastern europe and the much more open women go to bosnia,poland,hungary etc. they make croatia seem tough.
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...and don't forget Paradise on Earth (Ukraine)
post #263 of 308
With 18 pages, i doubt this hasn't been covered, but hell if I'm going to read 18 pages of your problem, haha.

Here's the one fault i feel is one of the less obvious ones (less likely to have been posted about,) though its important, obvious, and straight forward.

Your conversation went this way:



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Originally Posted by polo votarient View Post
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Girl: awwwww
Boy:
Boy: (6 hours later) what are you up to tonight?



What was she supposed to say after your text of JUST "?"
In conversations, texts or otherwise, agreeing (emoticon of a smile counts as agreeing and saying nothing more) without anything to further the conversation kills the conversation.

for example
a: "man this snowstorm is nuts!"
b: "yeah it is"
a (nothing)

When you just agree you can almost mistakenly indicate that youre waiting for them to continue a thought, something like this:
a "man this snowstorm is nuts"
b "yeah it is"
a "so listen, if youre not busy wednesday, blah blah"
Sounds like a regularly flowing conversation, condensed some.

So basically, if you're trying to keep a casual conversation going, you have to do just that, keep it going.





side note: any girl who's trying to get you to wait 3 months is ridiculous. If the right dude rolled by, i dont think she'd make them have really awkward pre-requisites. You just aren't that guy
post #264 of 308
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Originally Posted by Decahedron View Post

side note: any girl who's trying to get you to wait 3 months is ridiculous. If the right dude rolled by, i dont think she'd make them have really awkward pre-requisites. You just aren't that guy

+100.

Women know in less than 5 minutes whether they're going to sleep with you. Her 3-month wait was actually telling you that she wants to keep you around until someone she really wants to sleep with comes around.
post #265 of 308
What's a good plan of attack for snagging the coffee shop server/cashier? Bartenders, I've got that one figured out, just need to hang out in the bar long enough to catch her at a lull and then go for it. Usually by that point I've had a few drinks so I'm a little less intimidated. But... the coffee shop girl, I just can't get the timing right. I don't want to hang out in the coffee shop for a long time, because those people creep me out, and I don't want to be blatant and flat-out ask when she gets out of work or if she'd like to get a drink, because people that do that strike me as being assholes and I've NEVER seen that approach work. Has anyone pulled this move successfully?
post #266 of 308
With regards to a coffe shop. Go in daily, don't hang out, make small talk, make her laugh, smile at her and be warm. Initially don't tell her your name, just make sure she remembers you. If you keep going you become a regular face, and are therefore trusted and not a stranger. If you think things are going well, I.e. She is laughing at your jokes, smiles when you come in just flat out ask her would she like to go out for a meal sometime. In my experiences even guys with the best intentions fail because they are a risk to the girl as they are a stranger if the first time they speak to the girl they ask her out, they are just like any other arsehole trying to score lucky.
post #267 of 308
Do you have houseparties nearby? Drunk underage girls are probably the easiest to boost OP's confidence.
post #268 of 308
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Originally Posted by ClambakeSkate View Post

Has anyone pulled this move successfully?

If it doesn't work, prepare for a really awkward coffee purchasing experience in the future!
post #269 of 308
so i see you like to brew coffee. how about me and you brew up a conversation some time at my place? you be the beans, ill be the water. ill get all up in you and well form into a delicious drink that we can pour milk, or soy milk, or sugar, or sweetener, or even cinnamon in. ill stir you until your ready and if youre not too hot, ill get all up in that. then when were done ill throw you into the bin, but not any bin, the recycling bin. so that one day in the future maybe i can use you again, but it may be in a different form. you could be a box i use to pack my clothing in when i move homes. but i know thatll itll still be you, just in a different form. ill think back on the times we spent together and ill smile.
post #270 of 308
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Originally Posted by West24 View Post
so i see you like to brew coffee. how about me and you brew up a conversation some time at my place? you be the beans, ill be the water. ill get all up in you and well form into a delicious drink that we can pour milk, or soy milk, or sugar, or sweetener, or even cinnamon in. ill stir you until your ready and if youre not too hot, ill get all up in that. then when were done ill throw you into the bin, but not any bin, the recycling bin. so that one day in the future maybe i can use you again, but it may be in a different form. you could be a box i use to pack my clothing in when i move homes. but i know thatll itll still be you, just in a different form. ill think back on the times we spent together and ill smile.

txt -> your mom:
so when can i hit dat?
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