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post #16 of 308
Damn dude. You messed up bad.
post #17 of 308
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[quote=willpower;4076421]You can't. Why do you think everyone above said to forget about it? Read my post above and watch the videos, I spent a lot of time giving you suggestions on how not to screw up in the future


Sorry I didn't read the rest of your post, I see what you mean. Thanks for the help, I suppose I shall start letting this one fade. WHat you are saying makes sense and I shall put it into action next girl I talk to, now let me ask you this, so im in class or the library or cafeteria or some place and I see some girl that pleasing the the aesthetic, what would YOUR first move be to initiate conversation? Recently a majority (5 out of 8) of the girls I have been talking to have boyfriends, or at least they tell me they do. So I figure I need to start approaching more girls eh, I mean I have nothing to lose and all to gain.
post #18 of 308
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You can't. Why do you think everyone above said to forget about it? Read my post above and watch the videos, I spent a lot of time giving you suggestions on how not to screw up in the future Sorry I didn't read the rest of your post, I see what you mean. Thanks for the help, I suppose I shall start letting this one fade. WHat you are saying makes sense and I shall put it into action next girl I talk to, now let me ask you this, so im in class or the library or cafeteria or some place and I see some girl that pleasing the the aesthetic, what would YOUR first move be to initiate conversation? Recently a majority (5 out of 8) of the girls I have been talking to have boyfriends, or at least they tell me they do. So I figure I need to start approaching more girls eh, I mean I have nothing to lose and all to gain.
It really doesn't matter what you say. You can say "Hi, I know it's not easy meeting strangers, but so what, let's try". Or "You look bored. Game of tic tac toe?". "Hi, I came over to flirt with you, so let's get started. Ready? You go first" Even "Remember me?" will work. It's confidence or lack of confidence that the girl will pick up on, not the words you blurt out. You do have to greet her with a smile and make immediate eye contact when you're in front of her. Keep eye contact going 75% of the time when you're talking to her. Keep the conversation light. The more you can make her laugh, the better. Come up with a nickname for her, this will create a sense of familiarity between you two, even though you only met 20 minutes ago. It has to be about something you noticed about her - "You're studying volcanoes? Okay, Volcano Girl, what do you know about Pompeii?" Talk to her for several more minutes after getting her phone #, don't just split after she gives you her number. And when you text her (not the same day), use the nickname you came up with in the message. "So, Volcano Girl...blah blah blah blah blah"
post #19 of 308
Dude.....seriously....PICK UP THE PHONE AND CALL HER!!!
WTF is with all of the texting!!! PICK UP THE PHONE!! how many times can that be said! PICK UP THE PHONE!!!!
AFTER you get the goods, text all yuou want. Until then, PICK UP THE PHONE!!
If you are 14 and under, text all you want. Over 14, PICK UP THE FUKKING PHONE!
post #20 of 308
how exactly is a girl that tells you that you are going to have to chase her for three months a keeper? What a childish, fucked up thing to say.
post #21 of 308
For future reference, when a girl tells you you'll need to chase her for 3 months, you respond, "Do you have a sister?"
post #22 of 308
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Originally Posted by polo votarient View Post
Boy:So how long will I have to chase you before I can take you to dinner?

You blew it.
post #23 of 308
ah well kiddo, learn your lesson. Happens to the best of us.
post #24 of 308
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LMAO dude reading those messages made me feel uncomfortable. So desperate, and the smiles make it obvious you're trying to be non-chalant.

How fucked up can people not getting laid be...
post #25 of 308
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For future reference, when a girl tells you you'll need to chase her for 3 months, you respond, "Do you have a sister?"

this
post #26 of 308
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post
LMAO dude reading those messages made me feel uncomfortable. So desperate, and the smiles make it obvious you're trying to be non-chalant.

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Originally Posted by Milpool View Post
Damn dude. You messed up bad.

+1 Those texts made me cringe.
post #27 of 308
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post
LMAO dude reading those messages made me feel uncomfortable. So desperate, and the smiles make it obvious you're trying to be non-chalant.

Word. Super creepy. No chance with this chick, back off now unless you want a restraining order in the near future.
post #28 of 308
ouch man. ouch. move along...nothing to see here.....

NEVER ask a girl out through text....especially for a first date. lame sandwich. But when you did, and she blew you off, YOU KEPT TEXTING HER. NOOO!!!!!!

this is worse than asking out via facebook. If you keep this up, you better invest in some lube for those lonely nights at home alone.
post #29 of 308
Give up living.

Also, Wilson Brother (aka "The Guy") did the smiley posts better.
post #30 of 308
who uses the word 'sweetheart'? are you her grandmother?
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