Originally Posted by willpower
You can't. Why do you think everyone above said to forget about it? Read my post above and watch the videos, I spent a lot of time giving you suggestions on how not to screw up in the future Sorry I didn't read the rest of your post, I see what you mean. Thanks for the help, I suppose I shall start letting this one fade. WHat you are saying makes sense and I shall put it into action next girl I talk to, now let me ask you this, so im in class or the library or cafeteria or some place and I see some girl that pleasing the the aesthetic, what would YOUR first move be to initiate conversation? Recently a majority (5 out of 8) of the girls I have been talking to have boyfriends, or at least they tell me they do. So I figure I need to start approaching more girls eh, I mean I have nothing to lose and all to gain.
It really doesn't matter what you say. You can say "Hi, I know it's not easy meeting strangers, but so what, let's try". Or "You look bored. Game of tic tac toe?". "Hi, I came over to flirt with you, so let's get started. Ready? You go first" Even "Remember me?" will work. It's confidence or lack of confidence that the girl will pick up on, not the words you blurt out. You do have to greet her with a smile and make immediate eye contact when you're in front of her. Keep eye contact going 75% of the time when you're talking to her. Keep the conversation light. The more you can make her laugh, the better. Come up with a nickname for her, this will create a sense of familiarity between you two, even though you only met 20 minutes ago. It has to be about something you noticed about her - "You're studying volcanoes? Okay, Volcano Girl
, what do you know about Pompeii?" Talk to her for several more minutes after getting her phone #, don't just split after she gives you her number. And when you text her (not the same day), use the nickname you came up with in the message. "So, Volcano Girl...blah blah blah blah blah"