It's definitely all about what you want, not what others want you to have.
I obsessively poured over hundreds of photos, read countless posts, and totally drove my wife bonkers; then I concluded that I like the standard height and shape heel the best. I own two pair of Whites with them. And was planning on a third, but opted for another pair of Wescos for my latest (and last for a while) order, which incidentally will have a standard heel too
You're right because I will be the one wearing them lol. I have gone through this pictures a lot, and I do keep changing my mind. Do the sole options affect the heel height? It seems some heels are a lot taller than others?