It's got nothing to do with being a guy. This is the ToJ thread, we're here to talk about ToJ products, not unrelated leather products. The clue's in the title, and in the first post in this thread. There's a general leather jacket thread for leather jacket talk. Keep this one about ToJ.
If you don't know what someone is asking, don't answer them, there's enough misinformation in here that we really don't need even more people talking about stuff they don't know.