The TOJ1 looks fine. Pretty aggressive fit.
In my opinion: If you think wearing a monochrome t-shirt and some jeans that fit feels out of character (or scary) then save yourself the closet space and skip on the rider. If you're self-conscious about hardware, why bother with a rider? Opt for a CM, bomber, or trucker. If the jacket fits your frame and the rest of your clothes fit, it will look good on you. If youre the type of guy who wants to 'mix things up' by throwing a rider over your obcd/chino/brogue uniform, save people the eyesore and cop a bomber or truckers jacket. Black lamb silver 4zip DR is king, and if you only want/can have 1, get the 4zip. The finishing on the cuffs, the balance of details on the front, and the cut of the jacket make it one of the most baller choices next to the bcdr imo.
Can you record a reading of this so I can play it every time I charge into battle?