Looking at penises in the locker room. - Page 8

People who feel uncomfortable in the locker rooms have some severe mental problems.

I've only once been in a locker room with naked men and that was because I was taking a tour of an historical men's club that was still in operation. Incidentally, I found the situation rather uncomfortable although I've no problem with nudity for "entertainment purposes" at nightclubs and discotheques.

O god I now remember once when I was in a Japanese spa. Maaaan did I get looked at in there. My blondish pubes and white penis were stared at.. and I was also much taller than most of them. I even was asked by some medical student about circumcision, in very fobby english.

That was surreal but very funny. My two japanese friends were laughing about the entire experience. I don't think I've ever been the center of attention like that in my entire life.

Peeked grrrrl! Mmmhm.

I know; isn't it awful? And those MOSCHINO JEANS... yikes!

The worst part is having a coversation with people in the locker room.
Oh did I mention that you are fully clothed while he is completly naked?

I think it's fun to observe current trends in pubic hair styling. Who's got a bush, who shaves, who has a precious porn-star 'stache going on, etc.

As a white man I know the flesh itself has its impressive moments and its not so impressive moments... like after doing cardio for an hour (wants to crawl back in its cave).

I've only ever had gay men hit on me, never women. Like, not once in my entire life has a woman ever come up to me and started a conversation. Gay men, all the time - I don't think they are more selective.

You just have that glint in your eye.

Funny, I used to get hit on/approached by women all the time (well, maybe like twice a month, which is a lot considering how little I actually get out of the house) but as I've started working out and dressing better (latter point debatable: check SW&D WAYWT) my number of unsolicited approaches has winnowed, yet I'm sure I look better now than I've ever looked. I'm not going to try to draw a causal relation between the two, though. I know I've come to depend too much on playing pool as a social crutch, which I'm sure distances me from women. Also, I'm sure hanging around the same places for years on end hasn't helped; I've probably developed a reputation as the creepy social retard guy among regulars (many of whom I wouldn't recognize by their faces, never mind know by their names.) Also, my mood has most definitely soured over the last few years. I feel like anger and loneliness are destroying me from the inside-out, yet it's not something I talk about to casual acquaintances (which are the only acquaintances I have) and it's something I try to keep at arm's length when I go out somewhere. Maybe this is somehow conveyed in my demeanor/body language, subliminally alienating people, and it's my loneliness that's keeping me lonely. But yeah, I'm kind of dependant on women- well, anyone really- to appraoch me and start a conversation, since I don't have the social skills to initiate and sustain a conversation myself. Even when I think about friendships I've had in my life, they all started with someone approaching me first. The only two times I have been explicitly sexually propositioned by a complete stranger have both been by gay guys, and these sexual propositions occured- strangely enough- on two successive days.

So start hanging out somewhere new?

Oh my! We try never to do that especially these days where a handful of perverted priests have given us all a bad reputation.

well, that and I usually have my gf with me when I'm out and about. But gay guys really don't seem to care. Still, I find the attention flattering and not at all threatening.