Hey, so I'm trying to change up my hairstyle a bit, and this is basically the look I'm going for

But I'm a little unsure on how to achieve this.
I'm not really sure what to tell the hairstylist when I get it cut, other than showing him/her that picture. And what should I use to style my hair like this? Gel? Wax? I've been using a small amount of gel to style it (pics below) and have tried using wax called pomade (also below), but neither seem to get the job done.
My current hair (styled with gel):



Styled with pomade:

As you can see, the pomade left my hair looking (and feeling) very greasy, and didn't really hold my hair in place.
I'm also open to suggestions if you know of any similar styles you think would look good on me.

But I'm a little unsure on how to achieve this.
I'm not really sure what to tell the hairstylist when I get it cut, other than showing him/her that picture. And what should I use to style my hair like this? Gel? Wax? I've been using a small amount of gel to style it (pics below) and have tried using wax called pomade (also below), but neither seem to get the job done.
My current hair (styled with gel):



Styled with pomade:

As you can see, the pomade left my hair looking (and feeling) very greasy, and didn't really hold my hair in place.
I'm also open to suggestions if you know of any similar styles you think would look good on me.





But looking at it from the right, it looks terrible: 

