Originally Posted by EL72
I think you're sprending far too much time analyzing how you dress in order to fit in and not enough time getting some Grade A New England tail! C'mon man, snap out of it! You are in an area with the highest concentration of female students anywhere. You have your whole life to worry about pocket squares but only this year to create some kickass memories of wild, carefree fornication that will keep you grinning in your old age.
Apparently you've not heard of Southern California
As far as pocket square, jeans, sports coat... who cares? Really now? I've trawled up and down the party street at my campus in jeans, sports-coat and (gasp) pocket square. The only comments I've gotten (and a fair amount of them) are positive. Now I make a conscience choice to wear my less formal blazers and sports coats when going out to said parties. But the pocket square attracts attention, good attention, and I'm happy with that.
Besides having a blazer on normally gives you a nice discrete place for the prophylactic.