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post #31 of 125
12/29/10 at 4:48pm
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Originally Posted by Matt View Post
it's really just a matter of time before you develop a monster crush on me.

*sigh*

here we go again.

I have developed a monster crush on you

On a more serious note, I've been thinking about making a trip out to that part of the world at some point; would appreciate advice for great little places to eat etc when the time comes.
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post #32 of 125
12/29/10 at 6:09pm
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Originally Posted by whiteslashasian View Post
I have developed a monster crush on you

On a more serious note, I've been thinking about making a trip out to that part of the world at some point; would appreciate advice for great little places to eat etc when the time comes.

How sneaky you are. Everybody should take note, instead of overtly asking someone to coffee, do it under the pretense that want to "find out more".

I can see this blossoming into a beautiful bromance.
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post #33 of 125
12/29/10 at 10:51pm
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Originally Posted by allain2289 View Post
She knew it's a date.

I'll take that.
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post #34 of 125
12/29/10 at 10:54pm
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But wait... does what you're wearing still be important ?
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post #35 of 125
12/30/10 at 12:07am
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Originally Posted by whiteslashasian View Post
I have developed a monster crush on you

On a more serious note, I've been thinking about making a trip out to that part of the world at some point; would appreciate advice for great little places to eat etc when the time comes.

sure dude, let me know and happy to take you out.
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post #36 of 125
12/30/10 at 12:25am
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Originally Posted by Szeph el ratón View Post
Sounds like a nice evening. So tell us, did you meet tagut again for a 2nd date?

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Originally Posted by ratboycom View Post
He wont return my calls. I think he is just being coy.

He wont return my calls either, but in my case I think he is just being terrified.
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post #37 of 125
12/30/10 at 9:34pm
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Originally Posted by tomgirl View Post
Some kind of low-key restaurant always impresses me because it isn't trying too hard. If it's a nice and well picked place (ie: good food but hidden away/hip), I usually have a great time.

My usual MO, tack on a long walk after dinner with no particular destination provided the weather is nice and there's chemistry between myself and my date.
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post #38 of 125
12/30/10 at 9:37pm
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Originally Posted by allain2289 View Post
Where to take your girl on the first date?

I prefer a candlelight dinner in a fancy restaurant. For me it's still romantic. How about you?

if you can afford it go for it.just be mindful of the overall environment.Taking a first date to a swank style spot my scare the lass, or set the bar to hight
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post #39 of 125
12/31/10 at 12:13am
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Originally Posted by allain2289 View Post
Where to take your girl on the first date? I prefer a candlelight dinner in a fancy restaurant. For me it's still romantic. How about you?
Of course it's romantic. But romance doesn't make it the right thing to do, necessarily. I say this over and over in 'girl' threads, but it's not about the thing to do on a first date generally, as if all first dates with all people are the same. Sure, one can have a fallback, or an option generally for when you have no idea about someone (but if you have no idea about someone, why are you asking them out?) You have to consider your preferences and those of the person with whom you are sharing the experience. Romantic, serious dinner on a first date with someone you've otherwise known for a while, or maybe for someone you know as a friend? Sure, sounds reasonable. For a 'cold' date with someone you barely know? Probably not. Doesn't seem appropriate. Plus the $100+ bill can be an issue. Maybe coffee would be better, or drinks at an excellent cocktail bar. Depends on the situation. ~ H
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post #40 of 125
12/31/10 at 6:54pm
It seems many of you prefer first dates at night. Here is Ovid's advice.
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Don't judge a woman by candle-light, it's deceptive. If you really want to know what she's like, look at her by daylight, and when you're sober. It was broad daylight, and under the open sky, that Paris looked upon the three goddesses and said to Venus, "You are lovelier than your two rivals." Night covers a multitude of blemishes and imperfections. At night there is no such thing as an ugly woman! If you want to look at precious stones, or coloured cloth, you take them out into the light of day; and it's by daylight you should judge a woman's face and figure.
The link includes the Latin original for those who care. http://www.sacred-texts.com/cla/ovid/lboo/lboo58.htm
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post #41 of 125
12/31/10 at 6:56pm
to a bus shelter for surprise homeless dp.
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post #42 of 125
12/31/10 at 7:01pm
the bar
mcdonalds
back to the bar to eat mcdonalds
adult book store
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post #43 of 125
12/31/10 at 7:13pm
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Originally Posted by 300zx1985 View Post
Dont do movie and dinner - its sorta lame and shows no imagination. I prefer to go to a place where you can walk around a bit and sit outside somewhere to chat if the weather is nice.

+100.

Activity dates are fun too.
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post #44 of 125
12/31/10 at 7:15pm
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Originally Posted by indesertum View Post
dates should be reserved for girlfriends

+100.
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post #45 of 125
12/31/10 at 11:13pm
Whatever you do, don't be nice. Kindness, politeness are never rewarded by the female of the species - at least not during the initial courtship phase.
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