texting says, look i don't have the balls to face rejection so I am goin to ask you out in the most indrect way I possibly can. If you don't have the balls to pick up a woman and.. tell her that you are going to come pick her up, then you don't need the date in the first place. Texting has it's place. asking girls out, talking to girls period is not it. texting is what girls do with each other at school. Men call a woman and say look, this is what I plan to do, you either down or you ain't. plus, in a text, you can't pick up on the idiosyncrasies in her voice, the possible hesitation or the possible over excitement to see you, all that stuff is important. in a text, you can't tell if that excuse is BS, well you probably can't in phone either but I you have a better chance to. You text a girl, off the bat, she knows she is dealing with a chump. While she won't come out and say it, some dont even know it, women want to be swept off their feet, and the bottom line is, a woman doesn't get.. you know.. thinking about a guy texting her out. women want a confident man, not a guy who is too chumpish to face asking a girl on a date. she knows you aren't going to go in for a kiss, she knows you aren't going to be aggressive you can't even pick up the fucking phone and ask her out. If you are that scared rehease it, but this is a must, no exceptions. And if she says no, it's her loss, move on.
Woman: someone who knows what she wants, doesn't play games, mature, has outgrown social stigmas/peer pressures and makes her own decisions, doesn't let society and/or peers to make decisions for her etc.
i.e sagging titty syndrome