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2 and 1/2 month relationship too late to end it over the phone?

post #1 of 34
12/11/10 at 5:34pm
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She just gave me a big guilt trip over telling her over the phone but I figured it hasn't been that long? What say ye?
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post #2 of 34
12/11/10 at 5:36pm
You're an awful, awful man.
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post #3 of 34
12/11/10 at 5:47pm
Was it "serious" or what? Just a fling?
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post #4 of 34
12/11/10 at 5:52pm
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I think she may have considered it more serious but I never met her kid, she never met my friends so I think it may have been somewhat obvious that I wasn't that serious about it.
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post #5 of 34
12/11/10 at 6:17pm
In a world where people break up by changing their Facebook status, I think you could be considered a class act
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post #6 of 34
12/11/10 at 6:23pm
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I think she may have considered it more serious but I never met her kid, she never met my friends so I think it may have been somewhat obvious that I wasn't that serious about it.

Shit, she should have been surprised you even gave her your phone number. Sounds like two people that had drinks and sex, no idea why she would find this wrong.
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post #7 of 34
12/11/10 at 6:33pm
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She just gave me a big guilt trip over telling her over the phone but I figured it hasn't been that long? What say ye?

You should always, if distance permits, break up in person. I generally find guys are too afraid of the face to face meeting. Just look at her, tell the truth and make it brief. Its not that hard guys.
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post #8 of 34
12/11/10 at 6:37pm
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Shit, she should have been surprised you even gave her your phone number. Sounds like two people that had drinks and sex, no idea why she would find this wrong.
Single moms have less options for relationships, so they're more desperate and clingy.
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post #9 of 34
12/11/10 at 6:38pm
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I think she may have considered it more serious but I never met her kid, she never met my friends so I think it may have been somewhat obvious that I wasn't that serious about it.
Wow, same situation with me but my girl has no kids. (she is 19) I'm going to do it in person, but I do see her at work almost every day.
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post #10 of 34
12/11/10 at 8:00pm
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Wow, same situation with me but my girl has no kids. (she is 19) I'm going to do it in person, but I do see her at work almost every day.

This is was a mistake to begin with
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post #11 of 34
12/11/10 at 8:25pm
Thread is full of lose win, every post from the OP just adds another layer to the madness cake "hopefully this wont affect my promotion (she is my boss)" etc
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post #12 of 34
12/11/10 at 8:33pm
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I think she may have considered it more serious but I never met her kid, she never met my friends so I think it may have been somewhat obvious that I wasn't that serious about it.

You had sex with each other, you were never in a relationship. Don't worry.
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post #13 of 34
12/11/10 at 8:57pm
not a big deal.
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post #14 of 34
12/11/10 at 9:12pm
Easier than in person. I usually just faded away and didn't even call.
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post #15 of 34
12/11/10 at 9:15pm
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Easier than in person. I usually just faded away and didn't even call.

That's just low rent. I've been on the other side of that and it's a bad feeling.
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