Girlfriend's Crazy Ex-Boyfriend - what to do? - Page 15

Not sure if anyone has said anything important in the last couple pages, but I just read a post that asked for an update. It's only been a day, not much to update, but thus far nothing has happened. I would assume he's not going to do anything, just venting, but I'm always aware of my surroundings anyways.

In terms of the girl, I'm well aware anyone over 19 will respond with "herpderp love?!?! lolol gtfo" to a 19 year old saying he loves someone, but such is par for the course. I know that as far as my definition of love goes, I love this girl, and that's enough for me at this moment.

There's been quite a bit of hate for me throughout this thread, but I'm okay with reading what you all have to say, as many of you are much more experienced in life than myself. I'm well aware that common sense would dictate to a) not get involved with her (too late) or b) leave her now and move on (but I don't want to). The way I see it right now, I enjoy every second we spend together, and regardless of what may happen in the future, I am certainly not going to throw that away now.

Based on my OP and posts throughout the thread, it seems as though some of you assume that this relationship is stressing me out daily or having a negative effect on my life, but that is definitely not the case. I was simply asking for advice on what to do regarding the jealous ex-boyfriend who may or may not try to confront me. But that, in no way, means I don't enjoy every second of our relationship. She will be moving out within a week or two, and it's only uphill from there. We've both been through a lot of shit in our lives, and we connect so well that I am confident we can make it through whatever our respective lives throw at us.

Thank you sir. I'm aware that many of my posts in this thread have probably come across as arrogant and know-it-all, but that is not what I intended. I've been studying, and browsing SF when procrastination rears it head, so most of my posts were typed hastily and without much forethought.

Anyways, after re-reading some of my posts I would like to say that I am not as arrogant as I, unfortunately, come across. I realize that this is not the ideal situation for any of the parties involved, but I also know how happy being with her makes me, and I know she feels the same way about me.

The way I see it, anything bad that could potentially happen (her leaving me out of nowhere, her going back to the ex, etc), will be chalked up as a learning experience and I will eventually get over it and move on with a bit more experience and wisdom under my belt. For the time being, however, I will continue to enjoy the time we spend together, and hope that things progress as we both plan.

Thanks for the good wishes . I'm doing the best I can, and I hope things turn out for the best.

No, she didn't.