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Originally Posted by
mr. magoo 
Disagree. A white shirt is acceptable, as long as it straight collar (i.e., not button down). There is some dispute about whether oxford cloth is acceptable. To be safe, I would go broadcloth and french cuffs if possible.
There is no dispute on whether oxford cloth is acceptable.
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Originally Posted by
esq 
Mixed, so far. Brooks Brothers has slim fit tux shirts, but is the bib tux shirt ok without cumberbund? i.e., does the bib end up the belt line? Damn this shirt thing is stressing me out. I bought a sweet Ralph Lauren Purple Label black tie, too. I might be able to get away with a white french cuff?
The RLPL tie is a bow tie, correct? Look, if this is an elegant "big timer" event why are you trying to "get away" with anything? Why not just dress properly? You already know you should. You're just trying to get permission to be inelegant. You might just get it, but not from those who know anything about the subject. Go
here. Follow the instructions. It will all be great. Trust me.