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How I dress attracts golddiggers, how do I change that?

post #1 of 51
10/20/10 at 1:23am
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So no joke, the last few girls I've dated, while not necessarily golddiggers, were definitely the type to want to be "taken care of" as they put it. My ex who I'm still friends with told me due to how I dress and how I carry myself, I appear well-off apparently and more attractive to those types of girls than a guy who looks like a skater, for example. I normally just wear jeans, nice shoes or leather sneakers, and an untucked button down. Or I'll do shorts and a polo if it's warm. All items fit very well and tend to look like an outfit. Pretty damn preppy overall, though nothing I wear has a logo or brand name that's well known. So how could I switch things up a little to attract girls who wear jeans a tank-top, like to be outdoors, and are kind of tomboy-ish? Same idea for the hippie girls Most of the girls I know like that have boyfriends who are: In the army Bro's Guys who work out too much None of them wear anything but baggy shorts and a T-shirt. I've been here long enough to know this thread will quickly turn into crap, but it's worth a shot. What should I do, start playing baseball? Dress more like a bro? LOL.
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post #2 of 51
10/20/10 at 2:53am
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Originally Posted by longskate88 View Post
So no joke, the last few girls I've dated, while not necessarily golddiggers, were definitely the type to want to be "taken care of" as they put it.

My ex who I'm still friends with told me due to how I dress and how I carry myself, I appear well-off apparently and more attractive to those types of girls than a guy who looks like a skater, for example.

I normally just wear jeans, nice shoes or leather sneakers, and an untucked button down. Or I'll do shorts and a polo if it's warm. All items fit very well and tend to look like an outfit. Pretty damn preppy overall, though nothing I wear has a logo or brand name that's well known.

So how could I switch things up a little to attract girls who wear jeans a tank-top, like to be outdoors, and are kind of tomboy-ish? Same idea for the hippie girls

Most of the girls I know like that have boyfriends who are:
In the army
Bro's
Guys who work out too much

None of them wear anything but baggy shorts and a T-shirt.


I've been here long enough to know this thread will quickly turn into crap, but it's worth a shot. What should I do, start playing baseball? Dress more like a bro? LOL.

"LOL"

If it gets to the point where you actually date them, it's far more than how you dress. It's your personality. What you described is very generic and how most dudes dress. It isn't the clothes, bro.
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post #3 of 51
10/20/10 at 3:30am
Fuck the golddigger.
Move on.

DONE!
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post #4 of 51
10/20/10 at 3:36am
girls who wear jeans a tank-top, like to be outdoors, and are kind of tomboy-ish can still be gold diggers...

im assuming you want to attract less skanky girls.
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post #5 of 51
10/20/10 at 3:39am
go outside do outdoorsy things meet those girls you dress like an average dude you don't dress like a baller if you were like yeah man i wear lanvin and velvet jackets with dior jawns, well that would be something else.
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post #6 of 51
10/20/10 at 4:01am
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Originally Posted by Listi View Post
go outside
do outdoorsy things
meet those girls

you dress like an average dude you don't dress like a baller if you were like

yeah man i wear lanvin and velvet jackets with dior jawns, well that would be something else.

ehh me and Sq4you go out dressed like that and we only get hipster girls.
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post #7 of 51
10/20/10 at 5:33am
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ehh me and Sq4you go out dressed like that and we only get hipster girls.

me too. Toronto hipster broads love me, but I take my suburban beauties over them any day
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post #8 of 51
10/20/10 at 6:34am
dress like this guy...
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post #9 of 51
10/20/10 at 8:51am
Just go after the girls you like. I assume you're still in school, so the reason girls may not want to pay for stuff is because they have no money. That said, I've never dated a girl who hasn't insisted on paying for herself, even on the first date.
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post #10 of 51
10/20/10 at 9:42am
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Originally Posted by longskate88 View Post

Most of the girls I know like that have boyfriends who are:
In the army
Bro's
Guys who work out too much

None of them wear anything but baggy shorts and a T-shirt.

So stop dating tramps and trashy girls.
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post #11 of 51
10/20/10 at 4:24pm
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Originally Posted by yodawg View Post
dress like this guy...


yah, dress like this.
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post #12 of 51
10/20/10 at 4:33pm
You talk about two types of women:

1) Women who want you to fix their lives (golddiggers)
2) Women who don't want to fix their lives (bro-daters)

Find women who want to fix their own lives and date them instead. It'll make your life much easier down the road.
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post #13 of 51
10/20/10 at 4:36pm
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Originally Posted by Magician View Post
ehh me and Sq4you go out dressed like that and we only get hipster girls.

lol...DC
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post #14 of 51
10/20/10 at 5:10pm
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Originally Posted by yodawg View Post
dress like this guy...

In L.A. this look might mean you're worth at least a few hundred million $
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post #15 of 51
10/20/10 at 5:24pm
How should I dress if I want to be a golddigger? Well, more specifically, a liquor-store-owner-digger?
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