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Advice on Approaching Women?:)

post #1 of 91
Thread Starter 
Hi All


I work at a retail store

How do you get to know women who shop there to see if they have a boyrfriend/husband; get to know they are interested in you?

How do you get to know them better and possibly ask them for their numbers and/or a date?

Is there a difference between approaching a younger lady?

An older one?

Thank you All
post #2 of 91
well the first step is to learn basic social skills which i assume you dont have due to the fact that you dont know how to talk to people
post #3 of 91
It's impossible, give up now.
post #4 of 91
offering money usually works
post #5 of 91
Unless you're the shirtless model at A&F, when women go shopping they do not want to be hit on by the help.
post #6 of 91
Dude, the fact you are asking this question proves how little you know. Women do not expect to get hit on while they are shopping from retail employees. Save the flirting for after you get off from work.
post #7 of 91
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Originally Posted by fffffut View Post
well the first step is to learn basic social skills which i assume you dont have due to the fact that you dont know how to talk to people

This. (Loser)
post #8 of 91
Jesus christ this is so unprofessional it's sickening. Kill yourself.
post #9 of 91
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Originally Posted by acidboy View Post
offering money usually works

this line never fails:
"hey bitch, wanna fuck?"
post #10 of 91
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Originally Posted by impolyt_one View Post
this line never fails:
"hey bitch, wanna fuck?"

I overlooked the fact the op works in retail so I'm gonna rephrase what I said to:

offering something from the store in exchange for sexual favors would work guaranteed.
post #11 of 91
You obviously need to sneak up on them. Might I suggest a disguise?

post #12 of 91
Thread Starter 
Hey, I was just wondering
post #13 of 91
If you're handsome women will seek you for "help." Don't know what else to tell you, dude. When I was in retail I would find crap to do in the back, because I hated all the attention I would get from women and queers. And yes I have HORRIBLE people skills. I ended up getting fired because I ignored customers and never smiled. The people still wanted me though.
post #14 of 91
Thread Starter 
*LOL* Yes, I really do not pay attention to customers, I'm always too busy with tasks and working to get my work finished on time There are, every so often, girls I notice and was just wondering ha ha
post #15 of 91
Advice: don't use when talking to women. Edit: I guess I could offer some proper advice. You seem young, like 17 or 18, but this is what I would do as a 22-year-old in your position. If she is trying something cute on or looking at a piece of clothing, say something like, "I know I'm suppose to say this because I work here, but that looks (would look) really good on you." Be complimentary and genuine about it. If she responds well, then continue talking for a few minutes and ask if she would like to get dinner or a drink later in the week. I've never worked retail, much less tried to pick up chicks at work. It doesn't sound like you have the skills to do so right now, but once you understand people it will come naturally.
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