"Everything." - Chris Rock I've narrowed it down to a few things, now this is just my opinion...but I haven't found anyone really who would disagree with me. 1. Confidence. It is the equivalant to women what a smoking hot supermodel is to us. How you carry yourself, your body language, movements, posture, composure, is 100 times more important than physical looks alone. A GQ looking guy can become unnatractive to a girl if he doesn't have confidence. 2. Strength. Inner strength. Physical strength is irrelevant. A well toned physique is a bonus to them, (brad pitt, ryan reynolds, etc) but isn't necessary. It absolutely helps though, big time. 3. Sense of humor. Not necessarily being a comedian, but being able to laugh and see humor and things and be witty at times. An attractive female can have any guy she wants. Unnatractive girls get stuck with the leftovers. An average or below average looking guy will have to settle for the dregs...unless he has confidence, then he can have any girl he wants.