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post #46 of 60
This is not rocket science:

Girl

Hot -> yes

Talks to you -> yes - - - Basically, she doesn't think you are a creep. Thus depending how you play it, you can sleep with her.

That's enough to continue on. You are not gonna marry her anything close to that. Besides, a hot girl increases you chances to meet even hotter girls with a personality you match up with. So what's there to lose? Since you are not that interested anyway, you can keep her at arm's left which again makes her like you even more and again which leads her to put out..... Of course all depending on how you play it.

Just Go for IT!!!!!!
post #47 of 60
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Originally Posted by JMSBNSN View Post
Alright, so I met this girl in school. In terms of appearance she's pretty (and mixed race!), which is rare considering that I go to a community college filled mainly with old people. But then when I started talking to her I found she was pretty shallow in terms of personality. The only things she does is makeup, YouTube, facebook, and hanging out with friends (her words). So should I continue to date her or should I start the long journey of looking elsewhere for a girl that's more interesting? Thanks in advance.
so what happen with you and your girlfriend?
post #48 of 60
if you do not want to go deep, then go ahead
post #49 of 60
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Please elaborate on why you think that misogyny, which is commonly understood to mean "hatred of women", is applicable to this thread.

Really? You don't correlate the objectifying of women with hating them? How would you feel if people wanted to use you like a piece of meat? Loved?
post #50 of 60
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Really? You don't correlate the objectifying of women with hating them? How would you feel if people wanted to use you like a piece of meat? Loved?

no. why should one correlate the 2? does the company for which you work hate you because they value you for the services you are able to provide, instead of supposed inherent value?
post #51 of 60
They would be if they didn't treat you with civility, respect and consideration; and the reputation of corporations for being 'big and evil' certainly has something to do with companies that are devoid of such virtues. Really I'm not even sure how this is even arguable. If you're not making any considerations for the woman behind the female body, then - if not hatred - you are in the least expressing contempt for the woman's character (her person, who she is), which is still very much consistent with misogyny. And well you can even go into this further and consider that you might not even be appreciating a woman's body, that you might merely be appreciating the opportunity to releave yourself - with the woman being a convenient vessel rather than the subject of your desire, but contempt for women is certainly enough to label you a misogynist.
post #52 of 60
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Originally Posted by scarphe View Post
no. why should one correlate the 2? does the company for which you work hate you because they value you for the services you are able to provide, instead of supposed inherent value?

This is fucking stupid, a company isn't a sentient being.
post #53 of 60
^how about your boss or employer if you work for a small business?
post #54 of 60
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^how about your boss or employer if you work for a small business?

Yes, what about him? If he treats you like a mean to an end and not an end in itself well he is, at the very least, not your friend. If he is constantly hateful, mad at you and denigrating you like a bunch of SF posters do to women well it is safe to say he dislikes you and is a douchebag.
post #55 of 60
Back to answering the OP's question. Most women you will meet have very boring lives and few hobbies outside of watching reality TV or hanging with their friends/family. Once you lower your expectation on the type of woman you want to be with, the easier it will be for you to find a companion.

If you think she is cute, and you like hanging with her, then keep with it. If you'll hang out long enough, your hobbies will become her hobbies (happens all the time), which will improve your compatibility.
post #56 of 60
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This is fucking stupid, a company isn't a sentient being.
but at some point in the hiring procees and continuing in the process of being evaluated over time, a group of sentient beings or one(that represents the company) will decide your fate and most of the time they will nto look beynd you ability to succed in the role given to you.
post #57 of 60
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Originally Posted by XenoX101 View Post
They would be if they didn't treat you with civility, respect and consideration; and the reputation of corporations for being 'big and evil' certainly has something to do with companies that are devoid of such virtues.


you have an intersting definition of hate. I would consider what you call hate indifference.
post #58 of 60
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Originally Posted by scarphe View Post
but at some point in the hiring procees and continuing in the process of being evaluated over time, a group of sentient beings or one(that represents the company) will decide your fate and most of the time they will nto look beynd you ability to succed in the role given to you.
I already answered that. However you are mistaken if you're attributing too much rationality in their process of instrumentalizing people.
post #59 of 60
Nathaniel is right. Besides, opposites often get along better than those that are alike. But if you truly believe you are a better class of person, then don't. You don't deserve her.
post #60 of 60
talk with her, bro.
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