Originally Posted by GQgeek
10 minutes isn't premature ejaculation. Pre-mature ejaculation is defined as ejaculating before penetration or shortly after (within a minute), not 10 minutes after. If this guy went on an SSRI, I can pretty much guarantee he wouldn't be able to finish. I've been on them before and after 30-40 minutes of supreme effort I still wouldn't be any closer. In fact, it's estimated that 30-50% of men taking it experience anorgasmia, ED, or both, which is definitely not a good thing. Some docs supplement with Wellbutrin, which helps in some cases, but there really isn't a solution that works for everyone.
If the OP really wants to satisfy the girl, it's best to follow VM's advice. Either that or go for extended foreplay at the beginning and get her off, or at least get her close, before you start intercourse. That way she won't be disappointed when you finish in 10 minutes, which really isn't that bad compared to the average, especially among younger guys.
I'll disagree that he won't be able to finish. You're correlating your own experience and trying to say / extropolate to all males. Sorry, that's poor man's logic/science.
Its common sense that there is not a panacea for everyone. No offense.
Its very dose related like any drug. You lower your dose, cut the pill in half. And please cite the study, the protocols, the patient type etc. so I can evaluate your citation of 30-40% etc. I would need multiple studies with dosage adjustments which you can't cite with that failure rate.
10 minutes is longer than the average.
1. I think a man should usually satisfy the woman first due to a few reasons, female sexual cycle, length of time to climax, her reception to intercourse goes much higher post climax usually, men's lack of drive after climax for foreplay etc. etc. USUALLY.
2. You should lower your dose
3. Any of the ED drugs could also be of benefit, there is some data to support this.