Originally Posted by rjakapeanut
this thread really sucks. most of you guys are dicks, lol.
you made a mistake. if you run from it you are a huge coward. giant coward. you made your bed, so fucking sleep in it. don't be an idiot. give her time to make HER decision because YOU did this to HER, in your stupidity.
don't frame this so it's like she has an issue that's going to end up costing you something. it's a 50/50 proposition, jack. it's JUST as much your fault for doing it.
When I got a girl preggers I said I'd support any decision she made. That said, it was a different country and I wasn't on the hook for jack shit.
Look, this isn't 50/50. You are not a coward. You only live once, and you wanna enjoy your life. Use whatever manipulation you need to have her get the abortion.
If that fails, do a cost/benefit analysis of how much you want to live in Canada vs. become an expat. It's your life - you can be a "responsiblebro" and have to live with a psycho girl and give up your money and happiness, or you can live your life for you. It's not like you killed someone - this bitch is crazy for wanting to give up her career/social life for a kid who will grow up to be a fuckup because he has no dad. She is an idiot. You don't owe her shit. It's not like she is your girlfriend of five years.