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post #121 of 521
That is some situation you got yourself into,I hope she is not actually pregnant,for your and the kid's sake and that you learned a good lesson.
post #122 of 521
I don't know if this has been suggested but do this: 1. Do NOT talk to her. Do NOT go to the clinic with her. Do NOT allow ANY contact between the two of you. NOTHING. Change your phone # TOMORROW. 2. Don't give in to the pleas of "support". 3. Understand that whether or not she's pregnant being there now will do no good and will only make you closer to someone you don't want to be with. It will probably make "new" girl leave you. She doesn't need your drama. 4. Set all of her emails and any emails that have the word "baby" in them to be filtered into a special folder. Open said folder in 3 months. If she's having a baby, she'll have emailed you a number of times. 5. If she has a child get the DNA test ASAP. 6. If it's your child...LOVE IT. SUPPORT IT. DON'T RUN BECAUSE IT'S DIFFICULT. You'll suffer for making that decision and so will the child. The child won't deserve that. 7. Setup a visitation arrangement.
post #123 of 521
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Originally Posted by MetroStyles View Post
Dude the mom is an 86 lb asian. Chances of any kind of athlete other than ping pong player are nil.
Joak fail
post #124 of 521
chris rock said it best

"You make twenty million and your wife wants ten, big deal, you ain't starvin'! But if you make thirty thousand, and your wife wants fifteen, you might have to kill her!"
post #125 of 521
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Originally Posted by rjakapeanut View Post
the idea of "getting pregnant" is so weird. like she did it on her own.

the idea of being intentionally obtuse is so weird. like you enjoy arguing semantics on the internet.
post #126 of 521
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Originally Posted by Macallan9 View Post
the idea of being intentionally obtuse is so weird. like you enjoy arguing semantics on the internet.

i'm not at all being intentionally obtuse. i don't like arguing semantics.

but it's so clear that both parties in this situation were retarded, not just the girl.
post #127 of 521
The only thing worse than "getting pregnant" is "we're pregnant" so fuck off.
post #128 of 521
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Originally Posted by Macallan9 View Post
Fuck the kid and fuck that "life rarely goes as planned" bullshit. There's no way I'd let a cent of my money go towards supporting someone that manipulated me into staying with her by getting pregnant. Finish your grad program, and then peace out of the country.

Eat shit dead beat looser.
Who the fuck manipulated anyone. Only on women hating (and no women getting) SF do people actually think they are so fucking wonderful, such perfect givers of the dick, that every girl they meet is secretly trying to trap them by getting pregnant.
If she is actually pregnant it is the OP's fault as much as anyones. Condoms, fool, use them.

I can't believe how many people one, think this is all the girls fault, and two, think a man should abandon his child and run away from his responsibilities. Somehow I really doubt that this girls was after his non-existent wealth or was so bowled over by his (meager?) charms that she thought having a baby was the best way to go about keeping them.

As for the "life rarely goes as plans" comment. It's true and as much as you should be freaking out about this being a dad is not the same thing as, say finding out you have terminal cnacer. Ir. That means your life is over.

This just means that your life is about to majorly change in a way you could have planed for but did not.

Again, this is as much your doing as hers and you and everyone that does not want an accidental kid, USE CONDOMS.

People on this board always manage to surprise me with how immature they are. Not only do you buy into the falsity that women are all out to get you (as if any women would even want your lame ass) but you manage to convince your self that sex w/o condoms is not worth having. I've had sex more times that 99% of this board and I can say with 100% confidence that even with a condom sex with an actual women is head and shoulders above stroking it or raising a kid when you did not want to.
You're all two pump chumps anyway so just fucking wrap it, maybe you can actually make it to a full minute.
post #129 of 521
FINALLY another smart person in this thread besides me. kudos.
post #130 of 521
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Originally Posted by NorCal View Post
Eat shit dead beat looser.
Who the fuck manipulated anyone. Only on women hating (and no women getting) SF do people actually think they are so fucking wonderful, such perfect givers of the dick, that every girl they meet is secretly trying to trap them by getting pregnant.
If she is actually pregnant it is the OP's fault as much as anyones. Condoms, fool, use them.

I can't believe how many people one, think this is all the girls fault, and two, think a man should abandon his child and run away from his responsibilities. Somehow I really doubt that this girls was after his non-existent wealth or was so bowled over by his (meager?) charms that she thought having a baby was the best way to go about keeping them.

As for the "life rarely goes as plans" comment. It's true and as much as you should be freaking out about this being a dad is not the same thing as, say finding out you have terminal cnacer. Ir. That means your life is over.

This just means that your life is about to majorly change in a way you could have planed for but did not.

Again, this is as much your doing as hers and you and everyone that does not want an accidental kid, USE CONDOMS.

People on this board always manage to surprise me with how immature they are. Not only do you buy into the falsity that women are all out to get you (as if any women would even want your lame ass) but you manage to convince your self that sex w/o condoms is not worth having. I've had sex more times that 99% of this board and I can say with 100% confidence that even with a condom sex with an actual women is head and shoulders above stroking it or raising a kid when you did not want to.
You're all two pump chumps anyway so just fucking wrap it, maybe you can actually make it to a full minute.

See, that's all well and good except you're ignoring that she had agreed to abort should this situation occur. And that this "major change" could be easily avoided with 2 pills. A baby isn't some unstoppable juggernaut.

By the way, I suggest anger management and perhaps a 8th grade debate class. Even if you had any valid points, they all went up in smoke because your online temper tantrum/lecture involved mostly insults against the people you're talking to.

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Originally Posted by rjakapeanut View Post
FINALLY another smart person in this thread besides me. kudos.

Yes, clearly "smart" people resort to comments about sexual stamina and "Eat shit dead beat looser". Indeed, you have found a peer in the same intellectual league as you.
post #131 of 521
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Originally Posted by deranged View Post
i'm just trying to be nice and supportive right now, but letting her know that i'm not going to be with her under ANY circumstances.
It's still going to give her hope. Just think of the last time a pregnant woman acted logically. I rest my case.
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she's not doing too well in school in a poli sci major. i hope she's not trying to latch onto me...
You already spelled it out for yourself. Stop talking to her ASAP.
post #132 of 521
Talk her into getting the abortion. This is the only way out of it. If no go, then enjoy raising a child, you will grow up very quickly.

GF on the pill + I use condoms = No babies until we want to. We do not want ANY chances.

Also, there are some really childish assholes in this thread.
post #133 of 521
He would be equally at fault if; a) They did not have a mutual consent about not having kids, if she was impregnated. b) He wasn't sure that she was already on what is quite a strong contraceptive. How can anybody with an IQ above 11 argue against the fact that the guy; didn't do a hit and run and film it for Back Room Casting Couch, he had thought about this by making sure (however poorly, but I mean you can't exactly feed it to her) she was on the pill. Also he had thought it through in regards to the pill not working for any reason; and had mutual consent from her. People's pro-life, pro-abortion bias shows clearly and amateurly in this thread. His only fault is that he came inside her, while in the knowledge that she was on a contraceptive, and that even if that went out the door they both had a mutual agreement on what to do and had that covered. Can see many guys doing the same (as I have and do) as him, but hope many will revise their thoughts on this after such an example. I also do not support the more insensitive "dood you gawta tell the bitch how it eezz mann and leave her a$$ and nevah talk to herz " - we are not in her mind or body to know whats going on, however much it fluctuates from what she had planned to do in said circumstance.
post #134 of 521
She is 86 lbs. Giving birth will likely result in her death. Custody will transfer to you and you can put the kid up for adoption. Rest Easy.
post #135 of 521
lol @ this "she agreed to abort" shit. come on man. that's a HUGE decision -- that she "made" without having to make it. she was just as sure as he was that the pill was fine and she wasn't going to get pregnant anyway. now that the circumstances have changed, so has her mind. completely understandable. however, if he wears a condom we aren't having this conversation.
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