Originally Posted by Macallan9
Fuck the kid and fuck that "life rarely goes as planned" bullshit. There's no way I'd let a cent of my money go towards supporting someone that manipulated me into staying with her by getting pregnant. Finish your grad program, and then peace out of the country.
Eat shit dead beat looser.
Who the fuck manipulated anyone. Only on women hating (and no women getting) SF do people actually think they are so fucking wonderful, such perfect givers of the dick, that every girl they meet is secretly trying to trap them by getting pregnant.
If she is actually pregnant it is the OP's fault as much as anyones. Condoms, fool, use them.
I can't believe how many people one, think this is all the girls fault, and two, think a man should abandon his child and run away from his responsibilities. Somehow I really doubt that this girls was after his non-existent wealth or was so bowled over by his (meager?) charms that she thought having a baby was the best way to go about keeping them.
As for the "life rarely goes as plans" comment. It's true and as much as you should be freaking out about this being a dad is not the same thing as, say finding out you have terminal cnacer. Ir. That means your life is over.
This just means that your life is about to majorly change in a way you could have planed for but did not.
Again, this is as much your doing as hers and you and everyone that does not want an accidental kid, USE CONDOMS.
People on this board always manage to surprise me with how immature they are. Not only do you buy into the falsity that women are all out to get you (as if any women would even want your lame ass) but you manage to convince your self that sex w/o condoms is not worth having. I've had sex more times that 99% of this board and I can say with 100% confidence that even with a condom sex with an actual women is head and shoulders above stroking it or raising a kid when you did not want to.
You're all two pump chumps anyway so just fucking wrap it, maybe you can actually make it to a full minute.