Originally Posted by dmass1
When I say we have "good chemistry" I mean that we have a lot in common and have had good conversations the two times we've talked. Ambulance chaser - I'm not holding out for a Victoria's secret model, but I have dated and can pickup much hotter girls than this one. I'd put her at about a 6 on the 1-10 scale and its pretty borderline. I like her personality and respect her drive, but just not initially attracted to her really. I'm wondering if I should give it a shot and maybe develop an attraction or if its a waste of time.
I'm going through a similar thing, have a great girlfriend who is smart, funny, and we get along great...I've dated better looking girls in the past though, which makes me wonder if I can have all those good qualities plus someone who's really hot again. I stay with her though because what matter is that I
find her attractive and enjoy the sex/other physical things we do. I know beauty will fade with anyone, so it's personality I"m looking for. Plus, as they say "for every hot girl out there, there's a guy who's tired of putting up with her sh*t" I would say give it a shot at least, what's the worst thing that can happen?