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Dating etiquette: Can I just stop calling?

post #1 of 52
9/2/10 at 5:15pm
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Ok, so three dates with a girl, the last two ended with some lovemakin' I don't want to see her any more. No real reason.... just not excited about going any further. Would I be a huge dick if I just stop calling her? Do i need to call and say I'm no longer interested in seeing her? How about a text?
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post #2 of 52
9/2/10 at 5:16pm
oops
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post #3 of 52
9/2/10 at 5:17pm
This depends on;

1) what kind of girl this is.
2) if the answer to above isn't "girl who likes to have fun and knows what she's getting into", then ask yourself
a) How much do you value her dignity
b) How much do you value your own
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post #4 of 52
9/2/10 at 5:17pm
You should call her.
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post #5 of 52
9/2/10 at 5:20pm
Come on man. You know that if you've been on multiple dates with a woman and slept with her (not a ONS), you need to call her.
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post #6 of 52
9/2/10 at 5:27pm
LOL @ texting. That's the asshole thing to do for sure.
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post #7 of 52
9/2/10 at 5:30pm
email this thread to her.

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post #8 of 52
9/2/10 at 5:42pm
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Originally Posted by Xericx View Post
email this thread to her.


Then post her response.
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post #9 of 52
9/2/10 at 5:44pm
Anyone with a brain will catch on to someones lack of interest. Don't be aggressive just casually depart ways and if she asks let her know smoothly. A lil finesse and a smooth operation should ease the situation.
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post #10 of 52
9/3/10 at 5:25am
fuck her couple times more, but go a little more crazy... she'll just stop picking up ur calls and you off the hook unless she likes that kinda shit... then no clue...
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post #11 of 52
9/3/10 at 7:03am
God, be a man about it. When you're picking a girl up it's good manners to not call attention to it, but when its over you have to make it clear.
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post #12 of 52
9/3/10 at 10:51am
While if I was in your position I'd probably be tempted to just ignore her until she "went away", it also takes weeks before the other person gets the hint and leaves you alone, and even then if you accidentally bump into her, there will be this weird unspoken animosity/guilt between you two. Suck up your pride and at least send her an e-mail or something.
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post #13 of 52
9/3/10 at 10:54am
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Originally Posted by tomgirl View Post
While if I was in your position I'd probably be tempted to just ignore her until she "went away", it also takes weeks before the other person gets the hint and leaves you alone, and even then if you accidentally bump into her, there will be this weird unspoken animosity/guilt between you two. Suck up your pride and at least send her an e-mail or something.

Lawlz. Email is almost the worst, behind texting. Just call her. Don't be such a bitch.
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post #14 of 52
9/3/10 at 11:06am
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Originally Posted by Xericx View Post
email this thread to her.


This isn't an unreasonable idea actually.
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post #15 of 52
9/3/10 at 11:09am
Offer her a line of coke.
If she says "no," call her a loser and walk away.
If she says "yes," tell her she's failed the test and walk away.

Worked for me.
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