SF Official Relationship Thread

[B Hamilton]

Originally Posted by edinatlanta

Partly so I don't keep clogging up the Pissing you Off Thread and partly because people have floated the idea of a relationship sub-forum I figured why not at least have a thread.

If you've read, it hasn't been good for me the past week. I'll talk to her sometime soon and just tell her what's up. Figured something like this "look, you know I have feelings for you. I know you don't but I just want you to know that. And if you don't want to be with me, we at least can be friends. We have too much in common and too much fun together to not be friends. But I don't want to be on the outside with you. I want you in my life and I want to be in yours."

I know neither of us wants to not be friends at least and I'm friends with all my exes except a "GF" I had when I was 13 so it isn't that it can't be done.

Of course I'm not going to talk to her until she does. I know from past experiences she ******* hates not hearing from me so whatever.

**** i really don't know what to do. I hate conflict, I hate people leaving my life for any reason and I am patient to the point where submissiveness begins sometimes. And when I mean I hate those things, I mean I purposely structure my life to avoid any of them, so it isn't just a strong dislike for them.

Whatever, I'm a *****, I know this and I guess I just don't do romantic relationships well. My love life is a giant *******

**** bro. Crazy thing is, it's not even her. You just got emotions. I feel sorry for anybody who can't relate to what you're going through. Surround yourself with good friends and nice vibes and the rest will sort itself out. Get that much more serious about carving out a niche for yourself professionally. By the time you settle into this social/professional routine you'll have a hotter chick that wants to be there.

 

[globetrotter]

Originally Posted by kwilkinson

Ed, I don't want to get all ***** on you, especially since I think you are the definition of FAIL. That said, I think you should really just move on. You deserve to be with someone who thinks that you are the best thing since sliced bread. I mean, seriously. The way she treated you on that trip was not just typical pissy mood type stuff. She was just rude and inconsiderate the entire time. I don't see why you want to be with a woman like that. Granted, I understand you have feelings for her, but you need to look at the bigger picture. You were absolutely miserable that whole time. You just need to find someone that actually appreciates you for who you are, and enjoy the search while it lasts.

*******.

+1

I don't know how old you are, but basically from 17 until I met my wife, most of the women that I really was into treated me like ****. I could very easily have married one of them, and had a misrable life. keep looking.

 

[UpperWestie]

Try your best to move on Ed.

Originally Posted by MetroStyles

There's really nothing that can be done for you. You were just born an emotional creature. You'll have higher highs and lower lows.

Some guys are just inherently emotional relationship guys.

Some guys are just "I want to get ******* wet" guys. They don't get hung up, but then again, it's not exactly a fulfilling lifestyle.

You can't change the hand you've been dealt when it comes to brain chemistry and hangups...well you can but it takes a lot of time and effort.

+1

Originally Posted by kwilkinson

Ed, I don't want to get all ***** on you, especially since I think you are the definition of FAIL. That said, I think you should really just move on. You deserve to be with someone who thinks that you are the best thing since sliced bread. I mean, seriously. The way she treated you on that trip was not just typical pissy mood type stuff. She was just rude and inconsiderate the entire time. I don't see why you want to be with a woman like that. Granted, I understand you have feelings for her, but you need to look at the bigger picture. You were absolutely miserable that whole time. You just need to find someone that actually appreciates you for who you are, and enjoy the search while it lasts.

*******.

+1000

 

[Matt]

How old are you ed?

 

[acidboy]

Originally Posted by kwilkinson

Ed, I don't want to get all ***** on you, especially since I think you are the definition of FAIL. That said, I think you should really just move on. You deserve to be with someone who thinks that you are the best thing since sliced bread. I mean, seriously. The way she treated you on that trip was not just typical pissy mood type stuff. She was just rude and inconsiderate the entire time. I don't see why you want to be with a woman like that. Granted, I understand you have feelings for her, but you need to look at the bigger picture. You were absolutely miserable that whole time. You just need to find someone that actually appreciates you for who you are, and enjoy the search while it lasts.

*******.

Kyle, promise me you won't treat me that way when we go on our vacation.

 

[kwilkinson]

Originally Posted by acidboy

Kyle, promise me you won't treat me that way when we go on our vacation.

We'll be fine as long as you don't catch me texting/sexting Thomas on the side.

 

[Dakota rube]

Originally Posted by kwilkinson

We'll be fine as long as you don't catch me texting/sexting Thomas on the side.

You dirty, rotten three-timing bastard!
How could you do this?!?!?!?!?!?

**** you, you self-centered prick!

 

[kwilkinson]

Originally Posted by Dakota rube

You dirty, rotten three-timing bastard! How could you do this?!?!?!?!?!? **** you, you self-centered prick!
I'm in a glass case of emotion!

 

[acidboy]

Originally Posted by Dakota rube

You dirty, rotten three-timing bastard!
How could you do this?!?!?!?!?!?

**** you, you self-centered prick!

Hey don't talk to my man that way, *****!

 

[unjung]

Originally Posted by kwilkinson

I'm in a glass case of emotion!

Can you tell me what fabric this is?

 

[ConcernedParent]

Originally Posted by unjung

Can you tell me what fabric this is?

Looks velvety.

 

[hendrix]

Originally Posted by edinatlanta

stuff

preface: you shouldn't be with this woman.



Now, if you really, really still want to be with her, go date other woman. Don't call her. Talk to her like she's your friend. This is the type of girl for whom things that piss her off also make her attracted to you.

then start dating her. ironically, the thing which is most likely to get her to want to be with you is if you get over her.



but you don't wanna be with this type of girl anyway. You'll have to constantly not be yourself.

 

[unjung]

Edina, I didn't think you were the type of person to even need this sort of assistance.

 

[Flieger]

Guys, help me out.
I am with a woman and she is treating me like ****.
She won't let me slurp spaghetti out of her ass.
How do I convince her this Edmorel thing is actually quite normal?

 

[FLMountainMan]

Originally Posted by cchen

You should watch Swingers. Gave me some better perspective when my last gf and I broke up

When I was dumped in a particularly apathetic way, that movie probably saved my life. It really is the perfect post-breakup movie for men.