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post #31 of 39
7/23/10 at 12:42am
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If I could have helped myself, I, wouldnt have gotten into this predicament, now would I? Thank you.
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post #32 of 39
7/23/10 at 12:43am
yes, utter disgust.
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post #33 of 39
7/23/10 at 8:58am
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Just thought id share the gist of a quick convo with my mom this noon - I am an abject failure for not having married, dating outside the community and she said she felt miserable having given birth to a son like me. Just wanted to add the pressure there is while it might not be prevalent in american society per se, the asian community still pressures the crap out of you. Thanks t all that replied.
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^This explains a lot.
+1 lolol
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post #34 of 39
7/23/10 at 9:46am
in many asian cultures, it is tacitly acknowledged and expected that a man of power will have dalliances. you should mind your mother's advice and find a compliant asian wife who will support you, bear your children, mind your home, and quietly tolerate your sidebars and "business trips." the problem with a caucasian wife is that she expects too much. she will also tire of your small penis. this "dalliance" has been provided to you by the universe as a sign that you need to return to the fold. heed the advice of the universe.
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post #35 of 39
7/23/10 at 9:47am
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in many asian cultures, it is tacitly acknowledged and expected that a man of power will have dalliances.

you should mind your mother's advice and find a compliant asian wife who will support you, bear your children, mind your home, and quietly tolerate your sidebars and "business trips." the problem with a caucasian wife is that she expects too much.

she will also tire of your small penis.

this "dalliance" has been provided to you by the universe as a sign that you need to return to the fold. heed the advice of the universe.

Lol-qaeda.

Can we start a "Douglas dispenses life advice" threak?
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post #36 of 39
7/23/10 at 9:59am
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in many asian cultures, it is tacitly acknowledged and expected that a man of power will have dalliances.

you should mind your mother's advice and find a compliant asian wife who will support you, bear your children, mind your home, and quietly tolerate your sidebars and "business trips." the problem with a caucasian wife is that she expects too much.

she will also tire of your small penis.

this "dalliance" has been provided to you by the universe as a sign that you need to return to the fold. heed the advice of the universe.

Douglas hits another one out of the park.

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Lol-qaeda.

Can we start a "Douglas dispenses life advice" threak?

Would subscribe.

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Now the SRS part: Before I met Mrs. T, I cheated on everyone I ever dated. Everyone. Oh, I had great intentions, fidelity and faithful and trustworthy...when it was convenient. And I was mature...enough, I guess. After meeting Mrs. T, that stopped completely. Whether I changed, or she was just worth letting that part of my life go, I can't say for sure but it was never again an issue through the ups and downs.

OP: It sounds like you're either a) not ready to settle down, or 2) you've yet to resolve the conflict between your family's wishes and your own. I'm leaning towards the conflict angle and at some point you're going to need to pick a route and run with it.
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post #37 of 39
7/23/10 at 12:52pm
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in many asian cultures, it is tacitly acknowledged and expected that a man of power will have dalliances.

I can confirm this from personal experience, "...just don't let me find out about it if you do it"

I suppose I'd be willing to return the favor, providing the same caveat of course. Then everybody's happy.
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post #38 of 39
7/23/10 at 1:01pm
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in many asian cultures, it is tacitly acknowledged and expected that a man of power will have dalliances.

you should mind your mother's advice and find a compliant asian wife who will support you, bear your children, mind your home, and quietly tolerate your sidebars and "business trips." the problem with a caucasian wife is that she expects too much.

she will also tire of your small penis.

this "dalliance" has been provided to you by the universe as a sign that you need to return to the fold. heed the advice of the universe.

Lord have mercy I never saw it this way ! My eyes have opened I have seen the light !!
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post #39 of 39
7/23/10 at 1:43pm
What part of Asia are you in? Sounds like India, yes?
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