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post #1 of 39
7/22/10 at 12:13am
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So I need some help. I cant ask anyone and it will be clear in a bit why thats the case. Ive been dating this girl and its quiet serious, to the point we are thinking of getting engaged and the kinds. Shes met the family, everyone loves her, its perfect. Shes great for me and everything. So whats the prob you ask, every time in a relationship i get serious, i wreck it. I go out and find someone to cheat with or just break up, no reasons given. Up until this one it was not something I was too worried about. I was in school, I had my excuses.. none of which were sensible but ... anyways this time around I am seeing my behavior leading me to the road of being single for ever. Now just as things are falling in place, I found my self a dalliance, which is futile at best. And I cant seem to freaking get my head out of my ass and not screw up .. any advise ? Thanks in advance, TheAlternateID
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post #2 of 39
7/22/10 at 1:12am
dont get married?
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post #3 of 39
7/22/10 at 1:46am
grow up or, alternatively, accept the fact that you will be unmarried for the rest of your life, which isn't a horrible thing.
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post #4 of 39
7/22/10 at 1:56am
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Originally Posted by Dakota rube View Post
grow up

or, alternatively, accept the fact that you will be unmarried for the rest of your life, which isn't a horrible thing.

This about sums it up. I'd add:
Break up before you get caught out of respect for the girl.
Don't lead the next one on.

Oh and grow the fuck up you stupid fucking cunt.
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post #5 of 39
7/22/10 at 2:14am
If she and the relationship's as great as you're making it out to be, then why would you go and fuck all of it up? Come clean, move on, and grow up.
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post #6 of 39
7/22/10 at 2:24am
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I appreciate the comments to grow up. I obviously understand I have a problem and was wondering if any of you could relate to this at some point in your adult life if any of you had cold feet or something of the kind. But anyways, thank you for the comments. Cheers
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post #7 of 39
7/22/10 at 2:25am
Post under your real username so we can talk shit about you and then you will feel ashamed and change.
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post #8 of 39
7/22/10 at 3:07am
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Originally Posted by volatility smile View Post
If she and the relationship's as great as you're making it out to be, then why would you go and fuck all of it up? Come clean, move on, and grow up.

Do not under any circumstances come clean.
And yes OP I can relate. But basically you just have to suck it up and go for it or like Rube said come to terms with a single dotage. Frankly it takes some nuts to just say fuck it and go for it
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post #9 of 39
7/22/10 at 3:16am
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Post under your real username so we can talk shit about you and then you will feel ashamed and change.

don't see any change in you
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post #10 of 39
7/22/10 at 4:44am
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Originally Posted by Dakota rube View Post
or, alternatively, accept the fact that you will be unmarried for the rest of your life, which isn't a horrible thing.

Like Bill Maher. Of course, he does looks like a rat. Tough call, OP.
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post #11 of 39
7/22/10 at 8:10am
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Post under your real username so we can talk shit about you and then you will feel ashamed and change.

Well, we know it's not conne or virginia.
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post #12 of 39
7/22/10 at 8:41am
http://www.vimeo.com/9951674 http://www.vimeo.com/10399382
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post #13 of 39
7/22/10 at 9:39am
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don't see any change in you

I don't think this means the approach isn't sound. After all, we did the same thing to Conne, and he wound up with a beej.
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post #14 of 39
7/22/10 at 12:11pm
Do you really want to settle down? There's nothing in your post about what you value (freedom vs. stability) or what you really want for yourself in life (professional or monetary achievements? kids?).
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post #15 of 39
7/22/10 at 1:12pm
you don't want a long term relationship yet
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