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post #46 of 53
OK. here is what I think.

This girl obviously knows how to shake her ass and bring lot of attention from guys. She knows she is a hot stuff and she thinks all guys are willing to bend their knees to get her pussy. That's fine. This happens to nearly all hot chicks as they cannot help it.

So. I can list out few things.

1. Next time she calls you tell her that she is your monday (or any day, but only once a week) girl. Say it playfully. Say something like .. "Guess what. You just made to my all star team. You are my favorite Monday girl. .."
Then tell her that you are booked (doing dance class, martial arts, hanging out with other chicks..) but never tell her that you'd be hanging out with boys (there's reason for this).. Just tell her that you only have time for her
once a week (again playfully). If she misses this day to see you, she's gotta wait until next week! (punishment)

Let her call you. Only talk to her twice per week at the most, but when you talk to her, talk to her for a long time with serious of interesting topics. Show her good times over the phone.

2. Go out and meet other women. This will help you to forget about her. Really.

3. Be seen with you being with other girls by her or her friends. You do not need to go up to her and say Hi or whatever, just little smile or any facial acknowledgement can do when you see this chick or her friends. The rule here is that girls will find guys highly attractive when he is liked by other girls.

4. Do not go to bars with her. Be firm with her. Command her saying you do not want to meet her in such distractive location. Command her by saying that you want to discover more about her and skip the bull shit. Bars and club will only build more bullshit that you do not need. Tell her that. Be upfront. Because you are a busy guy who can pick up other girls.

5. Tell her, you do not find her attractive when she goes out and get hammered and be trashed in playful manner. Say something like, "why do you need beer goggle to pick up guys? You are kidda cute girl. Beer goggole aint sexy you know.."

Guy, just remember, don't give your power to her.


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post #47 of 53
Another way to put it:

People want what is unavailable. As long as you wait by the phone and make time for her, she won't respect you. She wants a chase, and you're rolling over for her. Play the game, make her work for it. Have poker night, or billiard night, or something else that makes it clear that she's not the only person in your life.

Don't freeze her out, just don't cave and give her everything she wants. If she wants to do something tonight, make it tomorrow night, since you've got the guys coming over for poker - no women allowed.

Good luck in any case.
post #48 of 53
Oh. Just to add bit more on this. When you want a girl to do something and she does not want to comply then never try to force her by saying .. common .. etc .. In this case, just break that mode by talking about something else. Talk to her about some happy and funny stories. Make her laugh .. and tell her again the thing that you want her to do. Most likely she will say "yes" to it. Always try to change her mood not her.
post #49 of 53
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I think I know who you are. Did you grow up in Visalia?

Quoi?

Jon.
post #50 of 53
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Quoi?

Jon.

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post #51 of 53
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Originally Posted by MilanoStyle
OK. here is what I think.


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post #52 of 53
Thread Starter 
Quote:
Originally Posted by MilanoStyle
OK. here is what I think.

This girl obviously knows how to shake her ass and bring lot of attention from guys. She knows she is a hot stuff and she thinks all guys are willing to bend their knees to get her pussy. That's fine. This happens to nearly all hot chicks as they cannot help it.

So. I can list out few things.

1. Next time she calls you tell her that she is your monday (or any day, but only once a week) girl. Say it playfully. Say something like .. "Guess what. You just made to my all star team. You are my favorite Monday girl. .."
Then tell her that you are booked (doing dance class, martial arts, hanging out with other chicks..) but never tell her that you'd be hanging out with boys (there's reason for this).. Just tell her that you only have time for her
once a week (again playfully). If she misses this day to see you, she's gotta wait until next week! (punishment)

Let her call you. Only talk to her twice per week at the most, but when you talk to her, talk to her for a long time with serious of interesting topics. Show her good times over the phone.

2. Go out and meet other women. This will help you to forget about her. Really.

3. Be seen with you being with other girls by her or her friends. You do not need to go up to her and say Hi or whatever, just little smile or any facial acknowledgement can do when you see this chick or her friends. The rule here is that girls will find guys highly attractive when he is liked by other girls.

4. Do not go to bars with her. Be firm with her. Command her saying you do not want to meet her in such distractive location. Command her by saying that you want to discover more about her and skip the bull shit. Bars and club will only build more bullshit that you do not need. Tell her that. Be upfront. Because you are a busy guy who can pick up other girls.

5. Tell her, you do not find her attractive when she goes out and get hammered and be trashed in playful manner. Say something like, "why do you need beer goggle to pick up guys? You are kidda cute girl. Beer goggole aint sexy you know.."

Guy, just remember, don't give your power to her.


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Yea Milano, I think Im going to do that. Recently, I started talkin to an ex-coworker of mine that I used to like a few years back and we have been talkin about going out, so I guess i will see her for a little while, just as a distraction. Im thinkin of takin her to the same bar where whats her name always goes to and just focus all my attention on my ex-coworker.

well see
post #53 of 53
Move on, get another that will be right with you
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