I ended up finding a dealer and checked out the cs2062 36" builtin.... it was okay, but I didnt really like the fact that both french doors open at once and you really had to push them to close them.. a little research showed that the "fully integrated" french doors should self close? salesguy had no idea what I was talking about.
As for ranges, he was really pushing capital and even NXR as cheaper alternatives to Wolf/Viking, he also showed me a Thermador which looked pretty nice but I have no idea about their ranges. Thermador has a $1k off deal going right now on a range/fridge combo so I may explore them a bit.
Was hoping this was going to be an easier decision but there are so many options. Also the GE monogram series looks quite nice but again I have no idea what the quality is like or what to go with!!!!!
The subzero and Miele fridges were awesome but at $8k and $7.5k respectivley for the 36" versions, I think I am going to pass... so hard to drop the $$$ on a fridge. The others I liked were the Thermador, Kitchen Aid and Liebherr all around $5000-$5500.