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Originally Posted by
breakfasteatre 
I really want to go on vacation soon, for like a week. End of july/august sometime
doing the research is giving me some serious anxiety to the point that I dont want to go anywhere
whats the solution?
breakfasteatre, dont go somewhere on vacation just for the sake of going somewhere on vacation; many people i know do this just for the sake of being able to talk about "having done that" and i understand the anxiety that goes along with it if youre not entirely up for it in your gut.
nothing wrong with taking a good relaxing week off or two, just to do nothing. staying at home. vegging. meeting some friends, watch a movie or two, go see your mom or what have you.
perfectly ok, and to tell you the truth, i think if there was a study done about this i would think in all honesty, most poeple would prefer to do this exact thing rather than going on some elaborately planned trip.
do you like camping? then go. do you like waterskiiing? then go. but if you don tlike those things, i dont, perfectly fine to take a few days off to just do things on the spur of the moment for things you like to do. heck. i can go shopping all day. or even watch a few movies. or play piano or play billiards all night or do laundry slowly during the course of a whole afternoon. it is meditative. nothing wrong with that.
