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post #16 of 25
6/24/10 at 2:50am
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Originally Posted by ConcernedParent View Post
I'm easily jealous and can be quite possessive, but you'd never know because I fight tooth and nail to pretend like shit doesn't bother me.

+1. I hide it well. I'm hoping it will just go away eventually.
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post #17 of 25
6/24/10 at 3:47am
Rather than suppressing it, I would address it and try to determine why you feel that way. I'd say it's even more important to do so if those feelings aren't triggered by something your girlfriend is doing, since that would suggest this could be a lifelong problem if not addressed directly.
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post #18 of 25
6/24/10 at 4:35am
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Originally Posted by bigboy View Post
[EDIT] Not to mention that "jealousy" that men experience is something some women want.

no this is wrong.

It's one of those things that they say they want, but in reality they don't.

Insecure girls like for their bfs to be at least a little jealous because it gives them a feeling of control and an ego boost.

There's a difference between showing you care and being jealous.
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post #19 of 25
6/24/10 at 5:52am
Whatever you feel, be honest about it and then figure out how to procede together.
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post #20 of 25
6/24/10 at 7:18am
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Originally Posted by Eason View Post
Whatever you feel, be honest about it and then figure out how to procede together.

I prefer to drop hints that could swing either way or say things that I may or may not mean depending on how I'm feeling the next day, and then change my mind when it occurs. That is how I roll.
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post #21 of 25
6/24/10 at 9:23am
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Originally Posted by acidboy View Post
never had that complex when I was dating my now-wife... in fact only time I got somewhere near that issue was one time when we were still dating I wanted to watch the movie "babe", yeah that pig movie, and she didn't want to and a week later she went out with a close male friend of hers and they watched "babe"... and I haven't watched it ever since.
I haven't seen Avatar yet because of this bullshit.
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post #22 of 25
6/24/10 at 10:09am
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Originally Posted by acidboy View Post
I did realize that guy friend of her's is a total friggin' loser and my wife just feels sorry for that guy for being a pile of fail... shit, that guy got married to a girl he was seeing for maybe less than a year, they moved in to his parents' house, wife later tells him she's leaving him for another WOMAN, but later on they (wife and lesbian gf) moved back in that house before finding another place.

I realize you think you're better than the guy and that that's given you peace of mind, but he'll always have "babe" and you don't even know where the good kissing scenes are.
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post #23 of 25
6/24/10 at 10:22am
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Originally Posted by Douglas View Post
I realize you think you're better than the guy and that that's given you peace of mind, but he'll always have "babe" and you don't even know where the good kissing scenes are.


this is SF, dammit! everyone here thinks he's better than the other guy!
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post #24 of 25
6/26/10 at 4:21am
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Originally Posted by RedLantern View Post
Girls do not like indifference... So I guess my answer is just enough possessiveness to let her know that you don' t think she's below you, but not enough to annoy her.

pretty much.
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post #25 of 25
6/26/10 at 8:19pm
used to be insanely jealous and possessive. that gif made me LMAO (literally i have tears in my eyes as i write this) because i remember in high school i used to play rec league basketball and my then-GF sat on the players bench. i seriously got myself subbed out of the game so i could sit next to her and glare at this guy who had tried to talk to her and continued to smile and wave at her during the game time, maturity and marriage have mellowed me the fukk out, though
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