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post #16 of 113

8/2/06 at 9:43am

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Originally Posted by otterhound

And you are complaining about this?

Hear! Hear!

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8/2/06 at 10:06am

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Originally Posted by wilson brother

Ok..but I wanted to cuddle and talk about some things that were worrying me...at night she only wants to have sex

(sorry this is private) and go to sleep

.. the same in the morning

Sounds like it's time for a heart to heart talk. Maybe she feels smothered?

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8/2/06 at 11:55am

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I told her guys need to cuddle too..but she pretend like she didn't hear me and just left to do her girl things.

I hate to be the one to ask this question, but do you hear a buzzing sound coming from the bathroom afterward?

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8/2/06 at 11:58am

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I hate to be the one to ask this question, but do you hear a buzzing sound coming from the bathroom afterward?

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8/2/06 at 12:29pm

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Originally Posted by wilson brother

Were not married..so I don't have the right to exchange her

Some people would reach the exact opposite conclusion from your premise . . .

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8/2/06 at 4:49pm

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Originally Posted by LabelKing

This is again a rather American phobia, and to an extent Anglo. Continental European cultures are quite touchy what with the cliched French double-kiss, etc. You can also see men linking arms when walking together.

Are you an advisor to the President?

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8/2/06 at 6:46pm

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Are you an advisor to the President?

I certainly hope not.

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8/2/06 at 7:22pm

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Originally Posted by stach

Sounds like it's time for a heart to heart talk. Maybe she feels smothered?

If she feels smothered..then why does she get so angry when I talk about my California dreams and.. tell me I should think about getting married?

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8/2/06 at 7:28pm

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Originally Posted by otterhound

And you are complaining about this?

I am complaining about this because I don't want to be used for only sex..I need something more like to talk and cuddle- to share my problems all the night through..

do you really think its so much to ask of my girl

??

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8/2/06 at 7:31pm

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Originally Posted by wilson brother

I don't want to be used for only sex..I need something more like to talk and cuddle- to share my problems all the night through..

Man, I used to use that line to get chicks in bed with me. I thought I'd never actually find a man who believes in it.

Not that there's anything wrong with you, your girl just isn't the cuddling kind.

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8/2/06 at 7:34pm

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She doesn't sound very nice but the sex sounds great!

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8/2/06 at 8:41pm

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Cuddling is nice and al, but I propose a 10 minute limit man-law to cuddling post-coitus, unless you are able to fall asleep in that position, in which case an extension can be granted.

You want to cuddle and talk about your hopes/dreams/problems? And she wants to have a lot of sex, and then pass out? No offense, but it sounds like she definately wears the pants in this relationship.

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8/2/06 at 11:35pm