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At what point your life did you find "real love" ?

post #1 of 45
6/14/10 at 1:46am
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I'm only 19. yes I know im young but I cant help but wonder that the reason I haven't found someone worth holding on to yet is because im not at the right place in my life. Any stories ?
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post #2 of 45
6/14/10 at 1:49am
only once, and we broke up four years ago. I was 27 when we met. Still not quite over that one unfortunately.
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post #3 of 45
6/14/10 at 1:50am
your probably right.

Ive dated a few great girls who are great wife material, but I just wasnt ready to settle down. Right girl at the wrong time. Oh well... plenty of them out there. If a d-bag like me can find a few, anyone can.

Besides, your 19. Go fuck everything you see. Youll regret not doing that when your 40 and hitting the same piece of ass for the last 2 decades.
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post #4 of 45
6/14/10 at 1:50am
but what is real love
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post #5 of 45
6/14/10 at 2:09am
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Besides, your 19. Go fuck everything you see. Youll regret not doing that when your 40 and hitting the same piece of ass for the last 2 decades.


This is great advice and cannot be overstated.
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post #6 of 45
6/14/10 at 2:23am
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Is it normal that every girl I have sort of relationship with annoys the shit out of me and all I want to do is fuck them and not spend hours on the phone talking about bs lol
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post #7 of 45
6/14/10 at 2:39am
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Is it normal that every girl I have sort of relationship with annoys the shit out of me and all I want to do is fuck them and not spend hours on the phone talking about bs lol

Is that how you really feel, or are you just ratcheting up the machismo in response to Davidko19's advice?
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post #8 of 45
6/14/10 at 2:42am
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Is it normal that every girl I have sort of relationship with annoys the shit out of me and all I want to do is fuck them and not spend hours on the phone talking about bs lol

If you dislike women that much, you may consider dealing with the fact that women just might not be your cup of tea.
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post #9 of 45
6/14/10 at 2:45am
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Is it normal that every girl I have sort of relationship with annoys the shit out of me and all I want to do is fuck them and not spend hours on the phone talking about bs lol

That's normal in a lot of relationships in your teens and early twenties; just be aware that those relationships aren't the ones that'll got the distance. "Real love," or whatever term you want to apply, involves attraction beyond the sexual layer.
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post #10 of 45
6/14/10 at 2:48am
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Is it normal that every girl I have sort of relationship with annoys the shit out of me and all I want to do is fuck them and not spend hours on the phone talking about bs lol
i dont find that odd at all. Most of the girls I know are great but i dont really care about what they did at their dumb job today, what their bitch friends did or wahtever. Nothing against them personally, I just dont care - and thats a "Its not you, its me" problem simple because Im not at the maturity point or whatever to invest my time to care about that. At least I know my faults. i figure one day Ill either (A) grow up, mature, realize what I have and learn to care about the subtlies of someone elses boring life or (B) find a girl who doesnt annoy me. Im hoping for B cause I aint close to A
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post #11 of 45
6/14/10 at 2:51am
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If you dislike women that much, you may consider dealing with the fact that women just might not be your cup of tea.
its not that at all, its just I cant deal with the complaining and bs. I love women that something intellectually stimulating to talk about I've yet to find one though
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post #12 of 45
6/14/10 at 2:52am
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i dont find that odd at all. Most of the girls I know are great but i dont really care about what they did at their dumb job today, what their bitch friends did or wahtever. Nothing against them personally, I just dont care - and thats a "Its not you, its me" problem simple because Im not at the maturity point or whatever to invest my time to care about that. At least I know my faults.

i figure one day Ill either (A) grow up, mature, realize what I have and learn to care about the subtlies of someone elses boring life or (B) find a girl who doesnt annoy me.

Im hoping for B cause I aint close to A

Aren't you a full-on adult now, like 25+?? This is kind of fucking sad man.
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post #13 of 45
6/14/10 at 3:03am
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Aren't you a full-on adult now, like 25+?? This is kind of fucking sad man.

Hahahaha, awww you remebered - 28. Like I said, i know my faults. Not gonna hijack threak, but maybe i havent found the right one to get my interest up or maybe Im just a bastard, probably a mix of both. I figure the OP is like that too.
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post #14 of 45
6/14/10 at 3:25am
23. I hope.
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post #15 of 45
6/14/10 at 8:35pm
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Besides, your 19. Go fuck everything you see. Youll regret not doing that when your 40 and hitting the same piece of ass for the last 2 decades.


this is sort of true.
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