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post #31 of 133
6/14/10 at 3:28am
Am I the only one who would question the quality of a woman, who would give you her number, within 3 minutes...?
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post #32 of 133
6/14/10 at 3:32am
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Originally Posted by tricota View Post
Am I the only one who would question the quality of a woman, who would give you her number, within 3 minutes...?

I only get numbers within three minutes. Predictably, my call-back rate is abysmal (even when it was the woman who offered the number in the first place.)
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post #33 of 133
6/14/10 at 3:38am
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Originally Posted by Davidko19 View Post

oh and tagut - it is like that in big cities. I see hookups, one night stands, etc.. all the time. No exaggeration. If you're in a younger demographic area it will happen. Hope you get lucky though!

That's awesome, how much do you pay to watch?
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post #34 of 133
6/14/10 at 3:38am
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Originally Posted by tagutcow View Post

I'm sick of being lonely. I've been sick of being lonely for years, but nothing changes. It's the same thing year in and year out. Ugh. I'm going to have to give internet dating another go.

You need to stop going to lame dive bars and sit down and develope a comprehensive "Get Tagut Laid" campaign or a "get Tagut Into A Sweet Loving Realationship" campaign or whatever it is you are interested in. Along with the inevitable abuse and merriment, a thread on this topic may yield some valuable advice/techniques.

With your permission I would like to start a threak in DT dedicated to this purpose.
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post #35 of 133
6/14/10 at 3:47am
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Originally Posted by redcaimen View Post
You need to stop going to lame dive bars and sit down and develope a comprehensive "Get Tagut Laid" campaign or a "get Tagut Into A Sweet Loving Realationship" campaign or whatever it is you are interested in. Along with the inevitable abuse and merriment, a thread on this topic may yield some valuable advice/techniques.

With your permission I would like to start a threak in DT dedicated to this purpose.

Have at you. Hopefully Metro will have some consultancy program.
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post #36 of 133
6/14/10 at 3:58am
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Originally Posted by tagutcow View Post
Have at you. Hopefully Metro will have some consultancy program.

Metro is probably out getting laid so you will probably have to wait for that.

Im heading over to DT now.
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post #37 of 133
6/14/10 at 7:31am
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Originally Posted by tagutcow View Post
I only get numbers within three minutes. Predictably, my call-back rate is abysmal (even when it was the woman who offered the number in the first place.)

Still, I doubt I would ever give anyone my number within 3 minutes - except for maybe Keira Knightley - and I dont think any selfrespecting girl would either...
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post #38 of 133
6/14/10 at 8:06am
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Originally Posted by tagutcow View Post
Have at you. Hopefully Metro will have some consultancy program.

Hahaha. Actually I've considered this before - a friend told me that one of their friends actually teaches guys how to get laid and gets paid a few thousand a weekend to mentor a guy. It's not like Mystery from The Pick Up Artistsor anything, but still I guess this guy makes a decent living off this. Insane. What a job.

But alas, I have no skills at teaching and limited skills at hitting on girls. I guess in Manhattan all you need is to get buzzed, find a girl who is also buzzed, smile, and flirt. That will be $500.
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post #39 of 133
6/14/10 at 11:55am
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Originally Posted by mondayc View Post
I work in the domestics section of a mid-tier dept store and guys hit on my hot coworker with the exact same stuff.

Actually, this is a big misconception many guys have. They think if they somehow have the best line or phrase or approach that will somehow magically make the woman like them. This is ridiculous. If a girl is open to talking to you, you can say just about anything and she will respond (barring something offensive, of course). If she doesn't want to talk to you, she won't talk to you--if you say something clever, she might go a for a back and forth, but it will end there.

Since women will rarely approach a guy, you need to go up and talk to women, and eventually you will find one that is open to talking to you. It is completely believable that the OP got three numbers with cheesy lines. If he exudes confidence, playfulness, etc. and projects an image that the girls want (perhaps he is good looking, to boot), he could have just told them "Hi--my name is Santa Claus, what's yours?" and that would have been sufficient. If they want to talk to you, any excuse will do.
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post #40 of 133
6/14/10 at 12:02pm
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Originally Posted by westinghouse View Post
Bed, Bath and Beyond.

I went there last night and got 3 phone numbers in ~10 minutes.

Secret? All I do is approach the target, pick up some obscure item, and ask them for their expert advice on the best way to use it.

Case in point: I saw a cute girl near the towels. I picked up a towel and asked "is this a wash cloth or hand towel, what is the difference?" and "is it necessary to use a washcloth?" Also, "would you date a guy who hangs a wash cloth on a hand towel rack?"

Try it, it works.

WTF does this even mean? You're old enough to be shopping at BB&B and you're unsure about their status?
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post #41 of 133
6/14/10 at 12:05pm
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Originally Posted by tricota View Post
Am I the only one who would question the quality of a woman, who would give you her number, within 3 minutes...?

^no game
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post #42 of 133
6/14/10 at 12:21pm
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Originally Posted by westinghouse View Post
Bed, Bath and Beyond.

I went there last night and got 3 phone numbers in ~10 minutes.

Secret? All I do is approach the target, pick up some obscure item, and ask them for their expert advice on the best way to use it.

Case in point: I saw a cute girl near the towels. I picked up a towel and asked "is this a wash cloth or hand towel, what is the difference?" and "is it necessary to use a washcloth?" Also, "would you date a guy who hangs a wash cloth on a hand towel rack?"

Try it, it works.

This is, quite honestly, one of the most pathetic posts I've ever read. I would bet my next paycheck that all three numbers were fake.
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post #43 of 133
6/14/10 at 12:37pm
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Originally Posted by tagutcow View Post
Well, my ENTIRE FUCKING SOCIAL life is bars and even there I don't meet available women on any sort of consistent basis. Who knows, maybe it's different for guys in metropolitan areas. When I go out, I don't see apparently single women in any significant numbers. I'm not even sure how prevalant bar hook-ups are around here. I've gone to bars several times a week for years and have only seem a person leave with someone I know they didn't arrive with on maybe three or four occasions. I'm sick of being lonely. I've been sick of being lonely for years, but nothing changes. It's the same thing year in and year out. Ugh. I'm going to have to give internet dating another go.
Let me ask you a question, and please answer it honestly. When you go out to bars, are you actively looking to meet women? Are you going out with the expectation that it's about meeting women, and when you come home empty handed, you get upset about it? Despite what the "pickup artist" types out there will tell you, being in the pussy-hunting mindset is counterproductive. You will ooze desperation if you go out actively trying to find women. You will also be frustrating yourself and stressing yourself out. The goal of going out is to have fun. Go out with your boys, kick back, have some beers, and just hang out. Have fun. Don't fucking worry about women, and don't constantly look around the room trying to find them. Only when you're in a relaxed and carefree mindset will you start to look attractive to women. It will sound like some new-age fucking zen bullshit, but seriously, it's true: in order to get women, you need to stop trying to get women. You should be a fun, cool guy whose company girls will view as laid-back and entertaining. The essence of being an alpha male is projecting an air that suggests "People are here for me." Not "I'm here for people."
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post #44 of 133
6/14/10 at 12:54pm
if you are a professional or post college, you will be limited to meeting women at work, through friends or at a bar. the idea of online dating sites is probably a good one. if you are in college and doing online dating, you should probably kill yourself. over a certain age, if someone is unattached, there is probably something wrong with them.
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post #45 of 133
6/14/10 at 1:03pm
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Originally Posted by thekunk07 View Post
over a certain age, if someone is unattached, there is probably something wrong with them.

Should you then focus on stealing them from other people?

Maybe an elaborate ruse involving a prostitute and a hidden camera?
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