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post #121 of 133
6/18/10 at 11:32am
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Originally Posted by freeAgent View Post
I've got to say that by far the best place I've found to meet women is at mutual friends' social events. You automatically have at least some basic stuff in common and it's generally very easy to tell who's single and looking. Plus, since you share 1+ mutual friends, you already have a group of people you can both hang out with, etc. Work that network.

And if you want to start a conversation that will last more than 5 seconds, you can pull out the "So how do you know X"

Even if they end up not knowing the host, they have some connection and now you are talking....I would do this more often but I feel like the places I end up are events where either I already know everybody or there is no individual host (more public events and stuff).
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post #122 of 133
6/18/10 at 3:14pm
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you can pull out the "So how do you know X".
"so how do you come to associate with this element?" works better.
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post #123 of 133
6/18/10 at 4:33pm
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Originally Posted by MetroStyles View Post
I don't understand how you people can deny that bars are great. I've had more than my fair share of crappy nights out but I mean in general, how can you deny that a bar full of drunk chicks is not an easier venue to meet girls than...anywhere else that I can possibly think of. They are there for a reason, and it isn't to sit in the corner by themselves. I feel this is common sense.

You don't even need to have balls in bars. You just need to drink.

The fault in this argument is that you fail to consider how different people are. Bars are great for you and, presumably, your peers, since you probably surround yourselve with similar people. Whether bars are good places to meet girls is primarily a matter of your personality. Some people do not have the right personality for this, they will never get laid that way. Tagutcow is probably one of them.

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Yeah, basically I want people to give me advice fully expecting that I'll say that their advice is useless to me. As long as people are talking about me, I'm cool with it.

Really, the inapplicability of your advice to my life is no fault of your own. It is indeed diffcult for most people to fathom how truly pathetic my life is.

Forget about bars, they are a waste of your time and money. Try social activities and online dating. But seriously, work on your personality first. The key is confidence.
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post #124 of 133
6/18/10 at 4:36pm
I can't be bothered to read this whole thread but has anyone mentioned weddings yet?

If not, then... at weddings.
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post #125 of 133
6/18/10 at 6:41pm
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Originally Posted by gdl203 View Post
I can't be bothered to read this whole thread but has anyone mentioned weddings yet?

If not, then... at weddings.

"Everything I know I learned from British rom-coms."
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post #126 of 133
6/18/10 at 6:42pm
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"Everything I know I learned from British rom-coms."

You lost me there
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post #127 of 133
6/18/10 at 7:05pm
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You lost me there

I think what he's trying to say is that you learned everything you know from British rom-coms.
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post #128 of 133
6/18/10 at 7:30pm
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Originally Posted by Mr. Clean View Post
The fault in this argument is that you fail to consider how different people are. Bars are great for you and, presumably, your peers, since you probably surround yourselve with similar people. Whether bars are good places to meet girls is primarily a matter of your personality. Some people do not have the right personality for this, they will never get laid that way. Tagutcow is probably one of them.



Forget about bars, they are a waste of your time and money. Try social activities and online dating. But seriously, work on your personality first. The key is confidence.

Honestly, if you're halfway literate, self-deprecating/ can tease them, ask interesting questions, and have decent pictures, this is the way to go. It's worked great for me, and it's not hard to stand out among the majority of guys who simply write "Hey baby, ur cute, when can we meet up??" in their messages.

Another good feature is it's kind of...anonymous (not the right word, but I mean you're not picking them up at your local bar, so when things go sour or you want to date someone else, you won't run into them again).
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post #129 of 133
6/18/10 at 9:33pm
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I think what he's trying to say is that you learned everything you know from British rom-coms.

Like... Love Actually? this type of film? Is there more than one?
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post #130 of 133
6/18/10 at 10:47pm
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Like... Love Actually? this type of film? Is there more than one?

You're fooling no one, man. We all know you've got every movie ever made starring Hugh Grant and/or Colin Firth on both DVD and Blu-ray.
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post #131 of 133
6/18/10 at 10:47pm
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Originally Posted by Arrogant Bastard View Post
You're fooling no one, man. We all know you've got every movie ever made starring Hugh Grant and/or Colin Firth on both DVD and Blu-ray.

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post #132 of 133
6/19/10 at 7:51am
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Originally Posted by gdl203 View Post

G, don't be embarrassed, I do too.
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post #133 of 133
6/20/10 at 8:13pm
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Originally Posted by Mr. Clean View Post
The fault in this argument is that you fail to consider how different people are. Bars are great for you and, presumably, your peers, since you probably surround yourselve with similar people. Whether bars are good places to meet girls is primarily a matter of your personality. Some people do not have the right personality for this, they will never get laid that way. Tagutcow is probably one of them.

It depends on what you are looking for when going to bars. If you just go there to have fun, that's fine. If you go there to find your dream woman and the mother of your future children, you will be frequently disapppointed.
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