Seriously? Well, isn't that sweet!! I've been off the market for a while. But back in the day, I used matchmaker.com. Not even sure if they're still around. But in any case, they had sub-fora for "specialty" demographics, such as Christianconnection, which I used, and met a lot of nice guys. They also had a jewishconnection, catholicconnection, gayandlesbianconnection, silvermatch, etc.
I'm sure there are a lot of others out there now. The key is to find one with a huge membership, especially in your region. Then make sure it has a great query and internal mail system.