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45 year old man dating a 23 year old lady advice

post #1 of 152
5/26/10 at 9:51pm
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I have a very much younger lady that is interesred in dating me. she is 23 and I'm 45.
It very hard to pass up the opportunity to date such a beautiful lady but besides the age there is another catch she dose not speak much english and I speak very little spanish, plus she lives in Mexico. My job sends me there every two weeks for a week or two.
Has anyone experienced dating:
1) someone half your age.
2) someone that you have to use your Iphone to translate your conversation
3) someone that lives in another country and you only see a couple days a month.
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post #2 of 152
5/26/10 at 10:02pm
Go for it. Post a pic of her.
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post #3 of 152
5/26/10 at 10:02pm
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Here is a photo of us
http://yfrog.com/6f1010253j
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post #4 of 152
5/26/10 at 10:51pm
Hell yes! You don't look very old. Just keep up with the celebrity gossip and you'll be OK. And don't get her pregnant.
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post #5 of 152
5/26/10 at 10:52pm
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post #6 of 152
5/26/10 at 10:55pm
Did you meet her in the red light district?
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post #7 of 152
5/26/10 at 11:29pm
wrap before you tap. That is all the advice I am going to give.
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post #8 of 152
5/26/10 at 11:55pm
you guys don't look that different in age at all. 2 days a month is way more than I've had at times with a long-distance relationship. I say go for it, nothing wrong in giving it a try, enjoy life and don't excessively worry about the future. Just make it clear to her that you wanna test it out for a while, so you don't break her heart if you end up doing splitting because of the distance/visa issues.
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post #9 of 152
5/27/10 at 12:02am
...going along with what I said, be VERY upfront about the fact that it is a long-distance relationship and it's going to have strains. The worst thing I've done, and seen others do, is adopt a 'love conquers all obstacles' philosophy and act like things are just fine. Both parties should be very aware of the possibility that it's not going to work... and like Larry David once suggested in Curb your Enthusiasm, perhaps you guys can create a keyword like "peach" that you could text when you wanna break up, it'll make things a lot easier and no hard feelings
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post #10 of 152
5/27/10 at 12:16am
Yeah Just do it. Not too much of a difference. 20 years.. 40 -- 60 pretty perfect.
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post #11 of 152
5/27/10 at 12:18am
As long as it isnt the other way around :> Anyways its not a big difference between you guys.
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post #12 of 152
5/27/10 at 12:21am
Fuck her, but don't invest too much emotion on her. She is 23 and probably still very immature. No offense, but you have to question why a 23 year would be interested in someone twice her age. Find out a lot more about her if you decide to take things serious.
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post #13 of 152
5/27/10 at 12:24am
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Originally Posted by Hombre Secreto View Post
Fuck her, but don't invest too much emotion on her. She is 23 and probably still very immature. No offense, but you have to question why a 23 year would be interested in someone twice her age. Find out a lot more about her if you decide to take things serious.

It's the fades on his jeans and the high armholes on his shirt. duh.
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post #14 of 152
5/27/10 at 12:50am
well make sure it doesnt get expensive.
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post #15 of 152
5/27/10 at 1:17am
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Originally Posted by Hombre Secreto View Post
No offense, but you have to question why a 23 year would be interested in someone twice her age.
All the things US dollars can buy in Mexico and a greencard would be my guess.
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