-a passport, a credit card, and some sort of mobile computing device, preferably a smartphone plus a laptop -a good omelette pan, a dutch oven, a cast iron skillet with a lid, a decent sized cutting board and a 9" chefs knife, a cheese grater, a small and large colander, full service for two -a reliable corkscrew, 2 red wine glasses, 2 white wine glasses, 2 champagne flutes, 2 tall juice glasses/highball glasses, 2 shorties, 2 shot glasses -eggs, good butter, good salt, good pepper, a small liquor cabinet of at least a clear spirit and a dark spirit, some cold beer, a bottle of red in the pantry, a bottle of white in the fridge, champagne optional. plus a bag of ice. -a good looking, clean sofa that comfortably fits three normal people, or two laying down -a decent TV and DVD player, doesn't need to be high end, just shouldn't be your laptop jerry rigged to your TV -a good queen size mattress and box springs, a couple down pillows, and a down comforter with a plain duvet -two full sets of bedding, one to rock, one to stock -a decent wristwatch -candle(s) - Diptyque Baies Noir for me -An interesting reading collection, placed in your main room -at least a few interesting DVDs on hand, the well known yet rarely seen type of movies -an extra roll of toilet paper in the bathroom in plain sight -styptic pen