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post #151 of 228
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Originally Posted by Nantucket Red View Post
Foolish of me never to have anticipated this, but I now bitterly regret ever having posted on the internet anything about any woman, even those with whom I've had the most fleeting infatuation.

hmmm, interesting reaction Red. Why is this?
post #152 of 228
For the same reason that people are advising not to bring up previous relationships in a new one.
post #153 of 228
How is this not in DTs yet? Grow a pair and worry about your future with her, not her past with others. The death of men continues...
post #154 of 228
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Originally Posted by Nantucket Red View Post
For the same reason that people are advising not to bring up previous relationships in a new one.

ah, I see now.

Forgive my ignorance, Mrs. Thomas and I just don't delve into each other's backgrounds. We tend to listen when the other's in a sharing mood...but after that neither of us feel compelled to ask questions.
post #155 of 228
Sometimes you just know if you are going to want to know....take a look at what you already know about her sexual history (unless you have communication issues, things like her having hooked up with "bob" are going to come out). I have had girlfriends where it felt fine to ask and find out since I had an idea of what the answer would be--and I have had girlfriends where I had contemplated talking about it and realized that I seriously did not want to know (again, based on what I already knew). Sure, there may be surprises hidden in there...you will be perfectly fine not knowing but if you were meant to be, finding out probably won't matter (and if you continue, odds are you will eventually find out).

Honestly, most girls could probably start to get a feeling for my number after dating me for a while based on the number of ex girlfriends I am still friends with and by going through my facebook photos (I tend to be in longish relationships so there is a trail of photo evidence). The false positives from the photo-trail would probably balance out the girls who don't show up...probably reasonably accurate
post #156 of 228
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Originally Posted by thekunk07 View Post
um, 6 a year is kinda whorish if you ask me.

When you were single, would you be ashamed of yourself if you had sex with six women in a year? Would you feel promiscuous? I highly doubt it..
post #157 of 228
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When you were single, would you be ashamed of yourself if you had sex with six women in a year? Would you feel promiscuous? I highly doubt it..

Yeah dude, obviously not. Because it's a different standard for men. And regardless of whether or not you've transcended social norms and expectations, the bottom line remains that the rest of society hasn't, hence the term social norms. So in conclusion, it is perfectly acceptable for a man to sleep with 6 women in a year, but not so for the reverse.
post #158 of 228
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Originally Posted by MetroStyles View Post
Yeah dude, obviously not. Because it's a different standard for men. And regardless of whether or not you've transcended social norms and expectations, the bottom line remains that the rest of society hasn't, hence the term social norms. So in conclusion, it is perfectly acceptable for a man to sleep with 6 women in a year, but not so for the reverse.

I support double standards.
post #159 of 228
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Originally Posted by Valor View Post
I support double standards.

me too...and usually double them
post #160 of 228
um, I'm a man dude.

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Originally Posted by username79 View Post
When you were single, would you be ashamed of yourself if you had sex with six women in a year? Would you feel promiscuous? I highly doubt it..
post #161 of 228
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Originally Posted by username79 View Post
When you were single, would you be ashamed of yourself if you had sex with six women in a year? Would you feel promiscuous? I highly doubt it..

honestly yes....
post #162 of 228
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Originally Posted by username79 View Post
When you were single, would you be ashamed of yourself if you had sex with six women in a year? Would you feel promiscuous? I highly doubt it..
Hell no, I'd brag about it bro. 6 girls a month is more my style.
post #163 of 228
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Originally Posted by phoenixrecon View Post
honestly yes....

+1

Random hook ups, one night stands, and short term flings have never appealed to me.
post #164 of 228
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Originally Posted by Stazy View Post
+1

Random hook ups, one night stands, and short term flings have never appealed to me.

then you are not doing it right
post #165 of 228
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Originally Posted by frenchy View Post
then you are not doing it right
Mehhh to each their own. Numbers aren't important to me.
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