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post #16 of 228
This is never a good thing to ask. Nothing positive can come from it because you'll never be satisfied by the answer. Say she's racked up a score of partners, obviously that would bother you. But then if she's only been with a handful, I'm sure you'll at first be okay but then once again, your jealousy issues will arise and you'll want to know more about those few and begin prying for something else. For me these days, if I trust a girl I don't care how many she has been with.
post #17 of 228
Just say no. Ask in ten years, after yr married, if she is the one, You'll have a big laugh.
post #18 of 228
You will never want to know the answer... so why bother.
post #19 of 228
exactly.

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You will never want to know the answer... so why bother.
post #20 of 228
"so how big a slut were you before we started dating?"
post #21 of 228
Generally, do you think the number is higher for men or for women? I'm inclined to think that the number is higher for men, but women repeat with the same guys more often. Something about not taking too many risks with strangers and sticking with who they know.
post #22 of 228
As long as you're the last one, it's none of your goddamn business.
post #23 of 228
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only because youre curious, not worried or anything like that. What goes on in this situation...?

You are so obviously more than curious, definitely worried, and everything like that, it's not even funny.

Some people are okay with this info, you are not, so don't ask.
post #24 of 228
Ignorance is bliss.
post #25 of 228
I'd rather not know. I've made the mistake of asking a couple of times before and it did not turn out well either time. My friend's advice to me, "if you really are that pissed off about it, just sleep with a few hookers. That has to be way worse than anything she's ever done." I didn't go through with the advice.
post #26 of 228
My last girlfriend asked me out of nowhere. Her number was higher than mine. I wasn't thrilled about it but it didn't ruin the relationship either.
post #27 of 228

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Edited by merkur - 7/30/11 at 1:02am
post #28 of 228
I have figured out why most answers to questions here on SF are smartass answers. When people answer seriously, it is never the answer the OP wants to hear.
post #29 of 228
It could turn out like this NSFW
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