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post #121 of 228
I'm usually done with mine in a few months tops, no need to know.
post #122 of 228
Has anyone asked the OP if he would like her to ask him how many partner's he's had? I've read a few pages and haven't seen that yet. Men seem to want their partners to be virgins, yet wanna sleep with as many as possible. Women are a lot more accepting of the fact that he's had previous partners. I admit, the idea of another dude who knows all the little features of the body you're looking at really diminishes the romance of it all, but you gotta know that she's dealing with the same thing with you. And if it's gonna be long term, then by very definition you know you're better than all the rest!
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Originally Posted by Arrogant Bastard View Post
This is the best thing about knowing I have a relatively unimpressively sized wang: I just don't get insecure about it. I've made my peace with it a long time ago, and I've learned how to use it properly. I'm not falling into micrpen0r territory or anything, but I'm definitely falling somewhere into the 50th to 60th percentile of dong that most chicks will have experienced in their sexual lifetimes. And being fine with that is a fantastic feeling. Chicks actually appreciate it, too. You'd be surprised how confident not having nagging hangups about your dick size can make you. On the other hand, I'm sure it would be nice to be swingin' 9 inches limp like a fucking tree trunk. But them's the breaks, I guess.
I have yet to see a porno with a 9''+ monster dong where the guy can do anything more than just slightly nudge half of it into her. It looks awful for the guy. I would much rather be able to thrust a more moderately sized dong all the way in until our stomachs touch, and use my whole body to work it. Mind you I've never had a gf that likes all-out power f-cks, since it just hurts them, nor have I ever heard of a girl my entire life complain about the indadequate size of a guy's schlong, so I just don't see what guys get all insecure about. My guess is the chicks that really care about raw size, if there are any, are nasty fat ones that are sluts to begin with.
post #123 of 228
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Originally Posted by MarkI View Post
Yeah this pretty much hits the nail on the head about how I feel about it, past behavior models how people act in the now, I'm not one to believe that people change dramatically...past behavior is definetely indicative of how someone might behave in the present.

It's just that the actual topic is hard to broach, and like many have said what is seen can't be unseen.

Though I'm not sure whether or not it would be a dealbreaker for me at this point, I feel like it used to but now not as much.

You guys don't think you'd be slightly turned off finding out your chick has been with multiple other guys...?

Eh, you are just lying to yourself. How old are you, seriously? I would guess from your emotional intelligence, 20. I'm not insulting you, that's just how 20 year olds are. That's how I was.

You just want some bullshit irrelevant information to hold over her head and make her feel bad, maybe you think it will make her try harder in the relationship, or maybe it just makes you feel like a moral Jesus, sick bastard.

Past behavior is an indicator of current? Unless you are worried she will cheat on you, what behavior are you afraid of? You are saying that it is important to know whether she will go on to have many more partners after she breaks up with you? Stop lying to yourself.

A more justifiable question about the past relevant to YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP is: How long was your longest relationship? Or, Have you ever cheated on a partner? Anything else is stupid. Stop lying to yourself
post #124 of 228
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In any case, I think any strangeness on my part comes from my own insecurities, but im still curious.

You got that one right. My advise would be to work on your insecurities instead of even pondering this idea. It's a terrible idea by the way.
post #125 of 228
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Originally Posted by Tarmac View Post
Eh, you are just lying to yourself. How old are you, seriously? I would guess from your emotional intelligence, 20. I'm not insulting you, that's just how 20 year olds are. That's how I was.

You just want some bullshit irrelevant information to hold over her head and make her feel bad, maybe you think it will make her try harder in the relationship, or maybe it just makes you feel like a moral Jesus, sick bastard.

Past behavior is an indicator of current? Unless you are worried she will cheat on you, what behavior are you afraid of? You are saying that it is important to know whether she will go on to have many more partners after she breaks up with you? Stop lying to yourself.

A more justifiable question about the past relevant to YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP is: How long was your longest relationship? Or, Have you ever cheated on a partner? Anything else is stupid. Stop lying to yourself

I'm 18 for what that's worth, and I understand what you're saying. This thread had actually made me think about it completely differently... It probably isn't a good idea to ask, and perhaps it isn't my business.

Though, as others have mentioned, what happens if SHE asks you how many girls you've been with...
post #126 of 228
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Originally Posted by MarkI View Post
I'm 18 for what that's worth, and I understand what you're saying. This thread had actually made me think about it completely differently... It probably isn't a good idea to ask, and perhaps it isn't my business.

Though, as others have mentioned, what happens if SHE asks you how many girls you've been with...

If you're number is between 1 and 3, tell the truth. Otherwise, you are on your own.
post #127 of 228
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Originally Posted by MetroStyles View Post
If you're number is between 1 and 3, tell the truth. Otherwise, you are on your own.

So you lie if your number is zero? I can't see that ending well. lol
post #128 of 228
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Originally Posted by Stazy View Post
So you lie if your number is zero? I can't see that ending well. lol

My number is 0 so I have to lie every time I have sex.
post #129 of 228
I had to coach a friend on this one once... a girl asked him, and he feigned some type of mathematical dilemma, busted out a calculator, computed for a while, and spouted out "250". I'm sure he was exaggerating, but I'd give him triple-digits easily. He did not get to 251 with that girl, that's for sure! If that is your situation... I suggest: "You're the last one, that's all that matters" "I fall in love a lot" "A gentleman does not discuss these things" "Nobody gets as much as they want, right?" ANYTHING BUT "250"
post #130 of 228
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Originally Posted by frenchy View Post
what part... i said 6-8 per year 6 at 14 years is 84 8 at 14 years is 112 so average is about 100 getting laid is not an exact science,i would expect this from Conne but not you
frenchy, you said you were in three serious relationships which took 9 years out of your activity. You are 35. So 35 - 9 = 24; if you started at 16 and using your 6 - 8 women a year, you're at 64 max. your math doesn't work It doesn't matter to me, but if you're going to brag, at least create correct math to support your bragging. Otherwise it just sounds like lying.
post #131 of 228
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Originally Posted by Dakota rube View Post
frenchy, you said you were in three serious relationships which took 9 years out of your activity. You are 35. So 35 - 9 = 24; if you started at 16 and using your 6 - 8 women a year, you're at 64 max. your math doesn't work It doesn't matter to me, but if you're going to brag, at least create correct math to support your bragging. Otherwise it just sounds like lying.
Well... 67 (assume he actually scored with each of the 3-year relationships)
post #132 of 228
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Originally Posted by ChicagoRon View Post
Well... 67 (assume he actually scored with each of the 3-year relationships)

Pretty bold assumption if you ask me.
post #133 of 228
If you are sticking your willy in her, it is damm sure your business.
post #134 of 228
jesus christ, who fucking cares? it's really high school to ask, and what difference would it make? just ask her how many she's been with since the two of you started dating.
post #135 of 228
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Originally Posted by Wallcloud View Post
If you are sticking your willy in her, it is damm sure your business.

I don't know about that.

Women are like dollar bills. You should assume they've been used by countless people before you and make sure to wash your hands after handling.
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