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post #31 of 138
5/9/10 at 9:24pm
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Originally Posted by ratboycom View Post
HONEST ANSWER: Most FOBs or exchange students, unless they are specifically looking for a local like you, do not want to hear about your supposed interest or knowledge in their history/culture. Dont try to pretend that you know anything about it either, unless you happen to be majoring in it. If this is the case, dont mention it, makes you look creepy. According to my women friends the biggest turn off for them is when some gaijin guy asks them out to Sushi/dim-sum/Korean bbq or some other Asian stereotypical food restaurant and cant shut up about how much he digs their culture, loves animu, and ramune and shit.
Yeah, they almost prefer you're entirely ignorant of their culture... I had a Japanese gf that wanted me to be the stereotypical american- some blonde surfer guy from LA or whatever.. and she hated it whenever I talked about Japan. I think some might even prefer you dislike Japan or are disinterested; I acted like that and I think she enjoyed it cuz we could share the same sentiments. A japanaholic is definitely not going to do well on the dating scene in a US college campus or tokyo. I guess transnational relationships often involve both parties wanting to forget about their homeland. Though I would say that if you're interested in something very specific about Japan, and not cliche like anime, they can find it charming. For instance I'm quite interested in Japanese woodworking joints, and she thought it was hilarious when I talked to an old man at a museum for half an hour about it.
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post #32 of 138
5/9/10 at 10:43pm
I usually apprach them with couple of water buffaloes in tow to offer to her parents back home as farm beasts of burden. then I invite them for some bubble tea where we can talk about physics.
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post #33 of 138
5/10/10 at 12:28am


Just be the opposite of every other guy who approaches her and marvels at her foreignness, or tries to associate with her.
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post #34 of 138
5/10/10 at 12:35am
Ben Rothelsiberger style, drunkenly cornering them in the bathroom with my dick out
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post #35 of 138
5/10/10 at 12:38am
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I was considering a Segway.
Your Seqway will segue to conversation.. Unfortunately the conversation will be about lazy Americans who refuse to walk.
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post #36 of 138
5/10/10 at 12:40am
Or approach in an Audi S5. It worked for the Asian dude I saw driving on campus the other day with a cute Asian girl in the passenger seat. See my thread here: http://www.styleforum.net/showthread.php?t=178840
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post #37 of 138
5/10/10 at 12:48am
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Originally Posted by ratboycom View Post
Also avoid sarcasm if you can, especially with Japanese. Its very rare for a Japanese woman to recognize sarcasm.

How do they live?
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post #38 of 138
5/10/10 at 12:57am
Thread Starter 
Thanks ratboycom, this was the kind of info I was looking for and had you not mentioned it I imagine I'd inevitably resort to it.

Also liked the Magicians response.
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post #39 of 138
5/10/10 at 12:57am
offer your services to make little half asian kids with you
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post #40 of 138
5/10/10 at 1:01am
Fobs hate wapanese people. Show interest in the girl, not in their culture. Putting on a show of knowing their culture just screams of a try-hard. If you know their culture, observe the customs quietly without making a big deal of it. If they notice, they'll appreciate the effort. If you are like, "Hey, look at me! I know so much about your culture! I love Asia!", they'll just think you're a creep.
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post #41 of 138
5/10/10 at 1:11am
How I do it: I run to the bank, change a few 20's into singles and get a benji, and then roll all the singles up inside the benji. I tuck it into my front pocket, so that it peeks out slightly. This is my lure. When target approaches, you want to make her feel comfortable and 'at home' so what better way than to talk about ancient Chinese dynasties, or the Tale of Genji. Even if she is Korean, she is sure to appreciate the history lesson. Also, be sure to hang your jade pendant on the outside of your shirt, so she recognizes that you're just a true brother trapped in a white guy's body. While you're having your conversation, casually pull out one of the Asian beverages from your backpack that you will have prepared ahead of time, and crack one open as if you drink the things all the time - if you're really down for this cause, you would anyway - and ask casually if she'd like a grass jelly drink or a 200 milliliter muscat peach gel drink. When you go to pull the can tab, have the roofie against your palm and drop it in simultaneously, give it a natural-looking shake to make sure the roofie drops in the hole, and give it to her with a smile - after all, she is your girl.
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post #42 of 138
5/10/10 at 1:13am
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I can see why they might find that creepy.
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post #43 of 138
5/10/10 at 1:24am
Even better, just roll out to some Asian American club meetings. When you walk in and get weird looks, say 'what, guys? I'm half Japanese, hajimaymashitty' and soon they will calm down. This will work in your favor two ways - girls will say they've never seen a halfie look so white before (desirable) and the guys will include you as a brother.
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post #44 of 138
5/10/10 at 1:29am
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Originally Posted by impolyt_one View Post

While you're having your conversation, casually pull out one of the Asian beverages from your backpack that you will have prepared ahead of time, and crack one open as if you drink the things all the time - if you're really down for this cause, you would anyway - and ask casually if she'd like a grass jelly drink or a 200 milliliter muscat peach gel drink.

I suggest a bottle of this



OB Beer. I mean its named like Tampons and doesnt taste much better, but girls like Tampons so they are bound to like this.
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post #45 of 138
5/10/10 at 1:31am
Have plenty of business cards ready, amirite
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