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Do you and your SO fight?

post #1 of 81
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No poal, just curious.
Do you and your SO (wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, tranny hooker, whatever) fight or argue?
If so, is it often?
Growing up, I only saw my parent's in a fight once, and it only lasted a couple hours. They in general were very courteous to each other and even if they were in disagreement, they calmly talked things through rather than getting angry and fighting. I guess it's possible that they just have been fighting behind closed doors for 23 years, but I doubt that's the case.
It's similar for my girlfriend and I. We never really fight. We fought a few times when we first started going out, but as we near 5 years together, I don't remember the last time we actually fought. Obviously no relationship is perfect and sometimes we annoy the shit out of each other, but we never fight, and when we argue or disagree, we talk about it and resolve it instead of just yelling.
It just seems like when I was growing up, I would always hear about my friend's parents fighting and not getting along and things along that line. So I don't know if my experience is truly odd or if it's normal to get along most of the time.
post #2 of 81
Not very often.
post #3 of 81
A: Maybe you are the two most boring people on earth.

B: She actually secretly hates you, and has been internalizing all this time. Biding her time and quietly waiting for the day when the tiny bits of digitalis she's been feeding you finally kills you.

C: She talks bad about you behind your back to all her other boyfriends. They all think you are a spineless, closeted homo. Oh, and she doesn't have to "fake it" with them.

D: True love. Like in the Princess Bride.
post #4 of 81
Atleast once a week it seems.
post #5 of 81
I waited before I post because I didn't want to come across as eager to reply first. Oh well no one is around fri nite.

I fight/argue with my wife all the time. I don't know, but the way we are, we have a lot of respect for each other and we don't go to bed angry. Not that we try to make that poicly, it just happens to be like that. We can argue about korean actors, finances, in-laws, the news, nitpicky things, how she treats the car, or how I don't do the dishes when I see it be needed done. Whatever. But sometimes we are calm talking. Sometimes we raise our voice. A few times it has been all out war and she literally has her grapple hands around my neck. I had bruises to show for it those rare time. But for some reason, even after she chokes me minutes later we can be talking yapping or laughing together at something on tv or whatever. My relationship is refreshing with my buddy wife we argue a lot but we make up real fast and never fear being honest and straight up with anything. Even the most sensitive of issues. That's how it should be. She's me and I'm her.

Cue the roll eyes from some repliers that's why I wanted to reply later. But I like to share. Not out of boast but just wanting to share.
post #6 of 81
Not since that first time when I popped her in the mouth.

Best set the tone for the relationship early and let her know her place.
post #7 of 81
my girlfriend and i fight hard, and often, and i hate it (except for the make up sex).

Seriously though, would not want to be in a marriage with this much and/or this intense fighting. I don't mind arguments, just the fighting is horrible.

just thought i would share too.
post #8 of 81
Once in a while, but it never lasts more than 24 hours. In the end, we usually come to realize that we're in pretty good shape because the little things we fight about don't even matter. Basically, we fight because we can only take so much of the lovey dovey shit. And the make up seks don't suck either.
post #9 of 81
Argue once a week maybe, if that. Never fight.
post #10 of 81
Been with her for 7 years, maybe 2 screaming matches total.
post #11 of 81
Once in a while, when I do something irretrievably stupid. Other than that, 26 great years.
post #12 of 81
16 years married and together 19 and barely an argument.
post #13 of 81
A lot less since the divorce.
post #14 of 81
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by Mark from Plano View Post
A lot less since the divorce.



Sorry, but I had to. I think that was your goal though.
post #15 of 81
Not yet, but I know it's coming some day. 8 or so months in, so its still a baby
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