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post #1 of 32
4/19/10 at 10:42pm
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Dear forvm, Over the past couple of weeks I've been hanging around with this girl that lives in my house. We've fooled around and all of that stuff but I'm beginning to realize that she is interested in a relationship. Tried sending some different signals over the past couple of days and I think she may be getting it. I am hesitant to just say it straight-up because I don't want to deal with the inevitable bullshit drama. I don't dislike her but I don't have time for a relationship. I barely have time to myself to be honest. What should I do? --Confused Conne
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post #2 of 32
4/19/10 at 10:44pm
Hang less with her.....unless you want some boo-tay!
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post #3 of 32
4/19/10 at 10:46pm
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Hang less with her.....unless you want some boo-tay!

that + looking at your avatar made me bust out laughing
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post #4 of 32
4/19/10 at 10:52pm
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Dear forvm,

Over the past couple of weeks I've been hanging around with this girl that lives in my house. We've fooled around and all of that stuff but I'm beginning to realize that she is interested in a relationship. Tried sending some different signals over the past couple of days and I think she may be getting it. I am hesitant to just say it straight-up because I don't want to deal with the inevitable bullshit drama.

I don't dislike her but I don't have time for a relationship. I barely have time to myself to be honest. What should I do?

--Confused Conne

Be a man and figure it out for yourself?

Ask yourself how men resolved such issues prior to the advent of the internet?
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post #5 of 32
4/19/10 at 10:53pm
Did you finally move in with the older gay paramour? Good for you conne. Play hard to get. You don't want him thinking that you are a slut! (or maybe you do!)
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post #6 of 32
4/19/10 at 11:18pm
You, my friend, are living by old rules: Be nice. Protect her feelings.

You're out of college now. Time to grow up. Time to live by grown up rules. She's an adult and can take care of herself. If she can't she needs to grow up. Get in touch with your inner asshole. Let her know where you are. Be honest. Then all the decisions belong to her. This is not your problem my man. If there is a problem, it's hers.


Oh....


Wear a condom.
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post #7 of 32
4/19/10 at 11:24pm
If you have enough time to hang around with her and fool around with her, how is that not enough time for a relationship?
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post #8 of 32
4/19/10 at 11:33pm
Conne is out of college?
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post #9 of 32
4/19/10 at 11:34pm
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Conne is out of college?

Done w/ classes, interning in DC.
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post #10 of 32
4/19/10 at 11:42pm
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And applying to jobs. I graduate in June. Kind of surreal.
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post #11 of 32
4/19/10 at 11:44pm
is this the dude who has the top bunk?
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post #12 of 32
4/19/10 at 11:45pm
You could save on rent by sharing a bed. Just saying...
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post #13 of 32
4/19/10 at 11:51pm
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Originally Posted by Connemara View Post
Dear forvm,

Over the past couple of weeks I've been hanging around with this guy that lives in my house and sleeps in the bunk beneath above me, except when we're in the same bunk of course. We've fooled around and all of that stuff but I'm beginning to realize that he is interested in a relationship. Tried sending some different signals over the past couple of days and I think he may be getting it. I am hesitant to just say it straight-up because I don't want to deal with the inevitable bullshit drama.

I don't dislike him but I don't have time for a relationship. I barely have time to myself to be honest. What should I do? I would like to get that top bunk by myself but I don't know if that would be dishonest.

--Confused Conne

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is this the dude who has the top bunk?

OK, now fixed, is this better?
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post #14 of 32
4/20/10 at 12:10am
Since you obviously don't have the balls to be honest with this girl, when you get married, will I be the best man?
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post #15 of 32
4/20/10 at 1:15am
Here's a motto you should live by: When in doubt, whip it out.
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