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Originally Posted by
the_state 
What I could never get my head around, is tipping on alcohol at restaurants. I order a $100 bottle of wine and you get $20 just for bringing it over? It never sits well with my but I still adhere to the standards...
You are right on here. In general, servers tip out to the kitchen and other staff based on sales so you probably should bear in mind the percentage of most of the check when tipping. This is especially true in the case of alcohol and tipping out the bar can be a total pain. However, in many restaurants, the server is not required to tip the bar when selling red wine. I worked at a nice Italian restaurant and would often not get tipped on bottles of red wine when I didn't actually help the customer pick a bottle out and it din't bum me out at all because it really didn't hurt my evening that much. What bums servers out more than anything is to lose money on a table because the tip didn't cover tip out.