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You keep coming up with straw men, I'll keep knocking them down.
First off, re: mindsets I was not the one who said...
Well of course Rubinacci is best at being... Rubinacci. Rubinacci is naturally an 'upgrade' over Chan if you want a... Rubinacci. But no one here has asserted that what Rubinacci does is easily copied anywhere by anyone, or that anyone else should get a Rubinacci done at Chan or any other XYZ tailor because they can churn out the 'same thing'. But despite me already saying that in my last post, you have placed Rubinacci above Chan on a qualitative scale, despite having no direct experience with Chan. And if putting Rubi above Chan does not 'tell the whole story', what is the other part of the story then? And your comment re: price is... how shall I put it... pretty obnoxious, perhaps? Let's flip your statement around, does it then get less obnoxious to suggest that (the more expensive than Rubinacci) Huntsman can do the 'same thing' as Rubinacci? Or are the concepts of a low(er) price or bang-for-buck or good value things that you find... obnoxious in general?
Straw man #1. That was never the point in question. For the 3rd time - the points I have raised are as follows: - if you go to a tailoring house (like you have) with a strong and relatively inflexible house style, the result will always be that you are channeling your stylist/tailor's vision of what looks good. It is certainly the easiest, quickest, and 'most efficient' way to 'looking good', but it is still someone else's vision of what looks good. - contrary to what you claim (and didn't substantiate despite pointing out the HK members as examples), a good result is possible if you act as the stylist and guide your tailor along in what you want Is that really that difficult to understand?
Yes, I did. Did you not understand that it was a rhetorical question?
And did you not understand the comparison I made - that unlike a woman - you should not accept your bespoke clothing 'as is'?
Straw man #2. I do not question your personal experience or its validity - of course you went to Rubinacci and had jackets made with them. That you had a personal experience with Rubinacci has never been a point of discussion here. That said, you appear to be locked in by your poverty of experience with any other bespoke tailor other than Rubinacci - unable to imagine how anyone else's bespoke experience might differ from yours. Not all tailoring houses work like LH, where in essence a stylist (Mariano) makes the lion's share of decisions and works in conjunction with a sympathetic tailor to deliver a well-fitted 'house style' garment to a customer while taking into account the customer's considerations. PG (and PG - if I am wrong, please correct me) knows what he wants, and guides his tailors as to how they might achieve it. Clearly others here have done so at Chan as well. NYR chipped in earlier in the thread to say the exact same thing about his experience with his tailor. And yes, that has been the tenor of my experiences with bespoke as well. But yet, you question our collective personal experiences?
Straw man #3. You wrongly attribute equivalence to people who are more involved with the design of their bespoke items with people who who use... 'cheap tailors'. And no one is claiming here that there is a (cheap) tailor out there who can do 'everything and anything the best, so long as you tell them what to do'. You seem incapable of realising that - unlike you - some of us are our own Mariano Rubinaccis, that we do not need a 3rd party stylist to make decisions for us, that we know what we want, how to dovetail what we want with our tailor's ability, and how to achieve a good result. We are actual players who are actively involved in the bespoke process in a big way, not some chap sitting on the sidelines observing, disagreeing occasionally with the referee's call, but ultimately not making much of a difference to the result of the game - the point maomao made went right over your head.
I disagree with your assertion that it is a delusion about the 'nature of custom clothing'. How 'custom' is something designed for you if (as you assert repeatedly) people can still readily identify it as being Rubinacci? You seem to take pride in that, while it makes me cringe. When I see a vox suit I wonder - who made that? Ditto for PG suits. Would something you played a major role in realising not be more... 'custom'? Re: the bolded bit above, I find it interesting that you would say that, given that you spent 'weeks pondering' and worrying about the buttoning style on jackets made nearly 2 years ago... and then finally sent them back to Italy to be redone.
Straw man #4. Fit and styling overlap, but are not the same thing. Everything may fit within that nebulous definition of 'right', but what about the styling? You also seem to imply that someone who takes a more active role in designing his clothes will somehow inevitably come up with 'outlandish, never-before-seen contraptions'. No, he will come up with something that is his own - rather than Mariano Rubinacci's or (insert stylist) vision of what looks good. Like I said earlier, he will simply replace Mariano Rubinacci.
And... straw man #5. I said all that? Wow. But the conclusion you draw is partly wrong, nonetheless. A person's 'individuality' partly stems from his choices, and an individual's choice of clothing is... well, necessarily a choice. Thus through the choices that were made in its selection, a man's clothing does say something about his personality, and is a glimpse at the individual who wears them. The concept of a uniform stems from applying the opposite logic. Does dapper Mariano let his clothing 'step aside'? Does the sartorially more adventurous Luca not express part of his personality in his more brazen colour combinations? Does someone who is fastidious, meticulous and precise with his fits not express a part of his personality? What does a pocket square worn tell you about the person who lives in a nearly totally pocket square-less world? What about a pair of well-shined shoes? So of course your clothes do not 'step out of the way', but instead speak about you (or raise questions about you) before you have uttered a single word. And knowing you, I'd like to remind you that they do that, whether you acknowledge it or not.
You really can't escape your mindset, can you? Saying that Rubinacci is better than Chan in some ways, does not mean everyone wants--or should want--Rubinacci. As I pointed out myself, construing one tailor as "better" than another only tells part of the story. Only when you assume that tailoring reduces to technical know-how along a straight, universal spectrum, such as you have, would you make the overreaching and misguided inferences that I was suggesting everyone use Rubinacci.
First off, re: mindsets I was not the one who said...
So, yes, I'd argue that a Rubinacci is an upgrade of sorts over Chan. I know I will catch a lot of abuse for that, but let's get real: when you're spending four times less than somebody else, it's actually pretty obnoxious of you to suggest you're getting the same thing.Originally Posted by mafoofan
Well of course Rubinacci is best at being... Rubinacci. Rubinacci is naturally an 'upgrade' over Chan if you want a... Rubinacci. But no one here has asserted that what Rubinacci does is easily copied anywhere by anyone, or that anyone else should get a Rubinacci done at Chan or any other XYZ tailor because they can churn out the 'same thing'. But despite me already saying that in my last post, you have placed Rubinacci above Chan on a qualitative scale, despite having no direct experience with Chan. And if putting Rubi above Chan does not 'tell the whole story', what is the other part of the story then? And your comment re: price is... how shall I put it... pretty obnoxious, perhaps? Let's flip your statement around, does it then get less obnoxious to suggest that (the more expensive than Rubinacci) Huntsman can do the 'same thing' as Rubinacci? Or are the concepts of a low(er) price or bang-for-buck or good value things that you find... obnoxious in general?
Moreover, you are free to want a hybridized suit (with respect to your example, a suit with "Italian features" but isn't overall an "Italian suit"). However, that was never in dispute. What is in dispute is if someone who wants an "X Style suit" can get it from a tailor who does not specialize in X Style but incorporates stylistic elements associated with X style.
Straw man #1. That was never the point in question. For the 3rd time - the points I have raised are as follows: - if you go to a tailoring house (like you have) with a strong and relatively inflexible house style, the result will always be that you are channeling your stylist/tailor's vision of what looks good. It is certainly the easiest, quickest, and 'most efficient' way to 'looking good', but it is still someone else's vision of what looks good. - contrary to what you claim (and didn't substantiate despite pointing out the HK members as examples), a good result is possible if you act as the stylist and guide your tailor along in what you want Is that really that difficult to understand?
Yes. Did you not understand the comparison?
Yes, I did. Did you not understand that it was a rhetorical question?
Seriously, do you have any experience working with a tailor? I'm not asking to make an ad hominem attack or put up a straw man, but because: (1) you question my own personal experience, and (2) your statements about how bespoke tailoring should be appear completely alien to the actual experience of what it is.
Straw man #2. I do not question your personal experience or its validity - of course you went to Rubinacci and had jackets made with them. That you had a personal experience with Rubinacci has never been a point of discussion here. That said, you appear to be locked in by your poverty of experience with any other bespoke tailor other than Rubinacci - unable to imagine how anyone else's bespoke experience might differ from yours. Not all tailoring houses work like LH, where in essence a stylist (Mariano) makes the lion's share of decisions and works in conjunction with a sympathetic tailor to deliver a well-fitted 'house style' garment to a customer while taking into account the customer's considerations. PG (and PG - if I am wrong, please correct me) knows what he wants, and guides his tailors as to how they might achieve it. Clearly others here have done so at Chan as well. NYR chipped in earlier in the thread to say the exact same thing about his experience with his tailor. And yes, that has been the tenor of my experiences with bespoke as well. But yet, you question our collective personal experiences?
I guarantee you, nobody here who looks good in their bespoke clothes will claim to have 'designed' it, simply using his tailor as an assembler. If you imagine otherwise, feel free to continue dreaming the impossible dream about cheap tailors that can do everything and anything the best, so long as you tell them what to do. To me, delusion is sadder than anything else.
Straw man #3. You wrongly attribute equivalence to people who are more involved with the design of their bespoke items with people who who use... 'cheap tailors'. And no one is claiming here that there is a (cheap) tailor out there who can do 'everything and anything the best, so long as you tell them what to do'. You seem incapable of realising that - unlike you - some of us are our own Mariano Rubinaccis, that we do not need a 3rd party stylist to make decisions for us, that we know what we want, how to dovetail what we want with our tailor's ability, and how to achieve a good result. We are actual players who are actively involved in the bespoke process in a big way, not some chap sitting on the sidelines observing, disagreeing occasionally with the referee's call, but ultimately not making much of a difference to the result of the game - the point maomao made went right over your head.
Your "vision" is really more a delusion about the nature of custom clothing, not a "vision of style," isn't it? It is not controversial to assert that personal style requires comfort and confidence--so, yes, to a degree, one much accept his clothing for what it is. If you cannot do that, you can't have style. You'll just be a fastidious, clothing nerd.
I disagree with your assertion that it is a delusion about the 'nature of custom clothing'. How 'custom' is something designed for you if (as you assert repeatedly) people can still readily identify it as being Rubinacci? You seem to take pride in that, while it makes me cringe. When I see a vox suit I wonder - who made that? Ditto for PG suits. Would something you played a major role in realising not be more... 'custom'? Re: the bolded bit above, I find it interesting that you would say that, given that you spent 'weeks pondering' and worrying about the buttoning style on jackets made nearly 2 years ago... and then finally sent them back to Italy to be redone.
Also, you inadvertently hit the nail on the head: bespoke is very much about fit. If you notice, the best dressers on this forum who use bespoke do not use bespoke merely to come up with outlandish, never-before-seen contraptions. Rather, bespoke is most effectively used to achieve the finest fit, finest detailing, and finest quality possible.
Straw man #4. Fit and styling overlap, but are not the same thing. Everything may fit within that nebulous definition of 'right', but what about the styling? You also seem to imply that someone who takes a more active role in designing his clothes will somehow inevitably come up with 'outlandish, never-before-seen contraptions'. No, he will come up with something that is his own - rather than Mariano Rubinacci's or (insert stylist) vision of what looks good. Like I said earlier, he will simply replace Mariano Rubinacci.
If you think your clothes can capture and express your individuality, I'd hate to think how shallow and impoverished that individuality must be. My "view of style" is this: clothes, and all other material things, cannot and should not embody individuality, only step out of the way and let it speak for itself.
And... straw man #5. I said all that? Wow. But the conclusion you draw is partly wrong, nonetheless. A person's 'individuality' partly stems from his choices, and an individual's choice of clothing is... well, necessarily a choice. Thus through the choices that were made in its selection, a man's clothing does say something about his personality, and is a glimpse at the individual who wears them. The concept of a uniform stems from applying the opposite logic. Does dapper Mariano let his clothing 'step aside'? Does the sartorially more adventurous Luca not express part of his personality in his more brazen colour combinations? Does someone who is fastidious, meticulous and precise with his fits not express a part of his personality? What does a pocket square worn tell you about the person who lives in a nearly totally pocket square-less world? What about a pair of well-shined shoes? So of course your clothes do not 'step out of the way', but instead speak about you (or raise questions about you) before you have uttered a single word. And knowing you, I'd like to remind you that they do that, whether you acknowledge it or not.